What are the stages of a relationship? Do you know all FOUR?

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What Are The Stages Of A Relationship? Find Out…
BY CARLOS CAVALLO

If you’re in a relationship with a man, you may be wondering what are the stages of a relationship? After all, you want to know where you stand with this guy.

There are four stages that you go through in every relationship that gets serious. And you definitely want to recognize each of the stages as you go through them.

The reason you need to know what those stages are is because:

You need to know what stage you’re in so you can plan accordingly…
You don’t want to make the mistake of thinking you are in a more advanced stage and possibly screw it up…

Because the biggest mistake you can make is to think you are further along than you actually are. Many women do this and end up ruining the relationship because they assumed the relationship was more serious than it actually was.

I’m going to help you avoid that mistake here right now.

Keep in mind that different couples will spend more or less time in each of the stages. There is no right or wrong, there is only your experience.

But generally speaking, you should never rush any of the stages. The more you take your time with each of them, the more likely you will make it to the next one.

Don’t try to map these to the zodiac, what your fortune teller told you, or any other method. You should always be using your rational mind as much as you can during the process of romance.

Relationships already have far too much emotion in them, and you have to balance that with smarts.

Something else to remember is that even if you don’t recognize all of the stages, you still go through them. Even if they don’t seem to have a hard boundary that tells you you’ve entered one and left another.

What Are The Stages Of A Relationship? Find Out...

Let’s start right off with –

STAGE 1: Hearts & Romance

This is the romance stage of the relationship. Every single relationship goes through this phase.

Some even call this the honeymoon stage. Because it’s that early part where everything is just amazing between you and him. And somewhere inside we recognize that it can’t last. It can still be fresh and fun, but it can’t be quite this passionate forever.

It starts out a bit awkward, and then gets pretty hot and heavy.

This is also the highest energy part of the relationship. Things are dialed up to “11” in every way.

Your emotions run high…

Your excitement runs high…

You feel like you’re floating on clouds…

Everything in life seems brighter and more vivid…

Your emotions are also more volatile…

It feels like you’re on some kind of drug, and you actually are… You’re high on love – 24/7!

This is the stage where love hormones start to cement the feelings of bonding between you and your loved one. And there are a bunch of these love chemicals in your system…

Oxytocin
Adrenaline
Vasopressin
Testosterone
Estrogen
Serotonin
Dopamine

Yeah – it’s quite busy in that brain of yours when you’re in the throes of romance. The reason for all those chemicals in your brain is so that you will form a lasting bond with him- lasting long enough for you to to mate and have children.

Of course this is the biological response, not the intellectual response you might have thought was going on.

The biggest mistake that couples make is to think that they have conscious control over the beginning stages of romance. Nothing could be further from the truth.

Love is mostly an emotional/physiological process – NOT a thinking process!

In fact, we are really only paying attention to warning signs when they come up. It’s very rare either the man or woman are looking at the red flags or evaluating the relationship based on what they really want.

Most of the start of a relationship is on autopilot. And that’s why this stage is so very dangerous.

If you don’t take a conscious step to really think about what’s going on in the relationship, it’s very likely that you will find yourself in love with somebody that may not be a very good fit.

Here are some of the other characteristics of this stage:

You almost always want to see them or be around them

The first order of business is always ...

For the rest, watch the video!

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