Dec 15, 2022- Tarot Thursday
We're going to dive into a few things the universe wants us to know about self-care and the mindset work we struggle with when it comes to putting ourselves first in our day-to-day lives.
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Episode 65: Tarot Tuesday- What Universe Has to Say About Joy
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Episode 63: Tarot Tuesday- What Universe Wants You To Create
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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This time of the year is about giving... but what about creating? Creating memories. Creating miracles for others. Creating inner peace and outward joy.
Here's what Universe wants you to create:
Use for Inspiration:
This will support follow through
What to expect:
Energy to embrace
What are you going to manifest in the upcoming year?
I'm offering a free Manifesting Party! on December 5th and would love for you to join. https://www.facebook.com/groups/817200609528786/permalink/859458511969662/
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
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Episode 62: Manifesting Monday- Why We Suck at Follow-Through
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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You start off strong... but then you fall off-track. Like January 1st, most gym memberships see an up spike between now and January 15th... and then falls off as the reality sets in.
Why do you fall off track?
We lose track of our goal.
We find ourselves overwhelmed.
We lose excitement and passion.
Lack of support and accountability.
What are you going to manifest in the upcoming year?
I'm offering a free goal-setting session (party!) on December 5th and would love for you to join. More info will be available tomorrow!!
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
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Episode 61: Sacred Sunday- You and Success
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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Yesterday we talked about the different kinds of motivation. Today we're going to talk about what success looks like
Money?
Happiness?
Freedom?
Impact on others?
I'll be hosting a free goal-setting workshop December 5th that will help you pave the way for 2023. This will be one part of what is covered in the 12 week renewal, so this will give you a taste of what to expect in the program. Xoxox
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
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Episode 60- Sippin Saturday- What Motivates You??
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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What motivates you?
As we chatted about it yesterday, we discussed external and internal motivations. Here are some more things that can motivate you to meet your goals!
Emotions and feelings- you know you want to feel better emotionally (internal) so you are ready to do things that do exactly that- meditation, tapping, etc.
Money- external- better finances, financial freedom, ideal lifestyle
Success- focusing on your personal achievements so you can feel good enough- while it seems internal, this is actually external, because it's based on the acceptance of OTHERS and how others view you!
Values- if your values have shifted, or you are doing something in order to meet your personal values, this is internal.
Vote below, emotions, money, success, or values!!
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
Episode 59: Frisky Friday- Go Big or Go Home?
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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What motivates you?
Some people thrive on external motivators... others thrive on internal motivators.
Some people thrive on short, breadcrumb goals, and others need massive, nearly impossible, carrot bundle goals.
Which one are you?
The cool thing is, there's no right or wrong answer! In fact, some projects require a different approach. But you need to recognize what approach works best for you and use it!
Are you an all-in or nothing person? That's okay. Me, too. Sacred Life List helps with that, because it keeps your projects and your goals all in one place but is customizable enough to give you flexibility within a goal structure. (It's a pretty cool system. I recommend you check it out! :))
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
Episode 58: Preventing Burnout Over the Holidays... and Every Day!
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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Yesterday we talked about the signs of burnout.
Today, here are 3 easy things you can do to prevent it!
1. Pace yourself. And plan for things to take double the time you think they will! (You'll definitely thank me later for this one!)
2. Delegate! Assign others to tasks to help. You don't have to do all the things. And if you DO have to do all the things... refer to tip one!
3. Say NO! Set your boundaries and be honest if it's something you don't want to do, or don't have time for.
Snag the flowchart mentioned in the podcast here:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/19-LWWh71ABk1aoZmavYgNGALltXzIAjILcZq_OGu3eo/edit?usp=sharing
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
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Episode 57: Wisdom Wednesday- Overcommitment Equals Burnout
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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Overcommitment often feels like:
Being overwhelmed
Doing all the things
Frustration
Disorganization
Exhausted
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
Episode 56: Tarot Tuesday- What Universe Has to Say About Perfectionism
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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Where you are
Where you want to be
How to get there
Energy that needs to be healed
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
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Episode 55: Manifesting Monday- I Know You Don't Celebrate Yourself
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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I know you're not celebrating yourself. So let's do it for you!
Did you get out of bed? Great job!
Did you do take a deep breath?
Did you stretch?
Did you take a sip of water?
Some days, this is where you have to start.
Tell me your goal for the week, whether it's run a half-marathon or get dressed 3 days in a row. Let's celebrate. Because some days, adulting is tough.
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
Episode 53: Sippin Saturday- Slow to decide? You're not alone!
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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Do you have a difficult time making decisions?
You're not alone! When it comes to making decisions, some people are faster than others. And that's okay!
What this means? You probably like to consider all the facts, or you wait until you're ready to think about whatever it is.
This stems from the desire to make the right choice, so its essentially perfectionism striking again!
I challenge you to make a quick decision today in something small.
How do you get better at making decisions? By having a life-plan so it's easier to know what you can say yes and no to!
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
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Episode 52: Frisky Friday- Why Your Flaws Make You Perfect
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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Flaws make you perfect.
We all have what we perceive as "flaws." Maybe our skin isn't perfect, or our bodies aren't aging as gracefully as we would like. Maybe we're procrastinators, or obsessive personalities. Perhaps we "lack backbone" to stand up for ourselves.
I know I'm a slow processor. I like taking time to process answers, paperwork, phone calls. It's one of the reasons why I automate most of my business! However, let me let you in on a secret.
Your flaws make you UNIQUE. And your flaws make you YOU. You lack boundaries because you love hard and deeply. You want to make others happy. You procrastinate because you want the project to be perfect, so you wait until the last minute, so you don't have that extra time to mess it up. Your obsessive personality can be your superpower if you can harness it and use it in a healthy way. And your body flaws? You are perfect just the way you are. In fact, I think we have to set a standard on natural beauty, and the more women who embrace it can help show the world that the world can embrace it, too.
My programs don't fix your flaws. They help you accept them, embrace them, love them, and improve them gently.
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
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Episode 51: Tell Me Thursday- Why This Side of Chaos?
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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Why did I call the business This Side of Chaos Coaching?
Because I help women get from that side of chaos and craziness to THIS side, where it's calmer, more loving, and happier!
Tell me of a time where you stopped caring what others thought about something, and you thrived?
I remember in high school when kids were making fun of me for being one of 3 kids in the school to go horseback riding... and I learned not to care.
I remember when I was undergoing my cancer treatment... and I went to the beach anyway.
I remember my partner telling me to give up coaching... but I pursued it anyway. Now I'm helping inspire women across the world.
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
Episode 50: Wisdom Wednesday- Stop Apologizing
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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Girl, Stop Apologizing by Rachel Hollis
Rachel discusses a few things in her book but some of my key takeaways were these:
Excuses: I'm not good enough to succeed.
"The problem isn't you aren't accomplished; the problem is you don't give yourself any credit for the things you have done.... That come from someone else's opinion."
"You have to decide right now that you're going to take hold of your life, and you're going to let all that other crap fall away because it doesn't matter."
Behavior: Stop asking Permission
"You're allowed to want to be your best self, to pursue your dream even if they don't understand it... Be the kind of woman who never asks permission to be herself."
Skill: Planning
"Who you are is defined by the next decision you make, not the last one. So, get planning, make your roadmap, and take the next step."
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
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Episode 49: Tarot Tuesday- What the Cards Say About Building Your Self-Esteem
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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Low self-esteem effects everyone to certain degrees. One of the things I noticed, though, was that when I learned to accept who I am physically, and love myself physically, it started mattering less and less what others think.
What do the cards say about this:
What you struggle with when it comes to self-esteem:
What you need to let go of:
What you can do to release this:
Energy to be Healed:
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
Episode 48: Manifesting Monday- Rebuilding Low Self-Esteem
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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Low self-esteem shows itself in several ways, but the biggest reflection of how we think of ourselves shows up with how we talk to our pets.
I remember having a friend who had a dog. She had just gotten out of an abusive relationship and stayed over with her pet dog... and I remember the things she was saying to her dog...
And it was heartbreaking because I knew if she was talking to her dog that way, that's how she was speaking to herself.
You can build your self-esteem by doing things you love. It seems silly and super simple, but that's the point. It's the simple things that create momentum!
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
Episode 47: Sacred Sunday- How to Make Assuming the Best Your Superpower
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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When you find yourself worrying, you're not alone... but here's a secret. you can turn that imagination into manifesting power!
Take that thing you're worrying about and start shifting the script: What if... it turns out better than what I think? What if... it works out the best way possible? And start imagining that!
It seems simple because it is. But it disrupts the pattern of negative thinking, of thinking the worst-case scenario, and allows you to create a positive outcome, a positive experience, and helps you start feeling better immediately.
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
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Episode 46: Sippin's Saturday- Celebrating Others and Understanding Success
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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Connecting to others and celebrating their wins is just as important as celebrating our own.
When we see others do something exciting, we sometimes feel jealous. Maybe we feel like... I want that too... when is my time?
But when you are genuinely happy for someone, it's a beautiful feeling. And not only are you telling those who achieve great things to keep up the good work... you're letting Universe know that you want more good things to celebrate!
And Universe will deliver. As hard as it is sometimes, you just have to keep your chin up and KNOW that good is coming for you, too. And trust that the next step and the next step and the next step are guiding you right where you need to be.
The easiest way to relax into knowing what you want is coming for you is to think of what it is you want as planting a seed. You plant the seed in the dirt every time you are sparked into wanting something. But instead of getting impatient for the tree to bear fruit overnight, we know and understand that the seed has to grow. It has to break the earth. It has to grow into a strong foundation of stalk and stem... the leaves have to unfurl... the flowers have to blossom... and then, just as if it were overnight, fruit appears... but it doesn't happen overnight, right?? So why is it that you can't have that kind of grace with others... and yourself? :)
Creating a plan to KNOW what you can do to feel better, so when you DON'T feel good, you already know what you're going to do for yourself so you CAN feel better. Sometimes, just having a PLAN makes you feel better.
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
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Episode 44: Tell Me Thursday-A Story of Standing for Your Growth
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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What does your personal growth mean to you? Does it look like coming across crazy? As coming across selfish?
To be clear and honest... YES. It comes down to choosing YOU over others, and as someone who has been a serial people pleaser her whole life, and worried about what others think, this is probably the most FREE I've felt.
I'm doing ME, for ME. I'm choosing ME. Even if I have to tell a client that we are no longer a good fit. I'd rather her have the time and money to work with someone who can help her heal, because her pain was keeping her stuck.
When we choose to keep our pain, love our pain, nurture our pain, instead of our growth... it's like trying to grow a dying animal. You can talk to it and try to convince it to heal all you want, but if give it water... clean and wrap its wounds, but it doesn't have the spirit in it to live... it won't live, no matter what you do. Sometimes, giving it a safe and comfortable place to heal can cause it to bounce back stronger... but it has to have that desire to fight within it.
So when I let my client go... I was honoring herself AND myself... I'm not going to continue to try to nurture a critter who doesn't want to heal. And I pointed her in a few directions that might be better suited. When you stand for yourself, you stand for your boundaries, you are also doing a favor for the other person. No one else is going to choose you every single time. They can't. It's not reasonable or healthy to expect it.
But that's why it's so important to know what you want, be clear on what you want out of your life, your job, your home, your relationships, because it allows you to say today, "I choose me."
And choose to heal EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.
That's where Sacred Life Comes in... creating a plan to KNOW what you can do to feel better, so when you DON'T feel good, you already know what you're going to do for yourself so you CAN feel better. Sometimes, just having a PLAN makes you feel better.
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
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Episode 43: Wisdom Wednesday- Codependency and Breaking the Pattern
This is the podcast for career and family-minded introverted women who love caring for others but are ready to restore balance by learning to take care of themselves without the guilt. We're all about self-love, law of attraction, and manifesting so you can learn how to reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Get ready for your daily dose of love and caffeination!
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Codependency is defined as "a psychological construct involving an unhealthy relationship that people might share with those closest to them.- Positivepsychology.com.
5 Factors leading to co-dependency can include (per postivepsychology.com)
1. Lack of love and nurturing
2. Rejection and abandonment
3. Family addiction
4. Physical, emotional or sexual abuse
5. Mental or physical illness
There's so much to unwrap in this topic... but one thing I want you to know is that all of these, while all these factors leading to it are unable to change, you DO have the ability to change the way you think about them. We get stuck in telling our story from the point of victimhood, of how we suffered and grew into patterns of distrust, not enoughness, people-pleasing. The truth of it is that we DON'T have to stay there.
It will take time. And effort on your part. But your life won't change until you make the decision to heal.
And choose to heal EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.
That's where Sacred Life Comes in... creating a plan to KNOW what you can do to feel better, so when you DON'T feel good, you already know what you're going to do for yourself so you CAN feel better. Sometimes, just having a PLAN makes you feel better.
Let's get you a plan. Register for your free assessment. I'll meet you where you are, give you resources that can help. Here's the link:
https://this-side-of-chaos-coaching.teachable.com/p/sacred-lifestyle-assessment
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Hi there! I'm Christine DeGennaro, author of Sacred Life List Method and Courting the Universe, and I'm a Self-Balance Alchemist who helps introverted women reprogram their mindset and redesign their future. Contact me with questions!
thissideofchaos.office@gmail.com
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