LISTEN FOR THIS when your narcissist talks to you
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1 ask why
2 truth is what they think
3 rationalize bad behaior
4 unintentionally hiding (false memory)
5 Self elevation
6 depreciation of you (and others)
7 misdirection
8 mood
9 note non verbal ques
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10 things narcissists are hiding from you
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What narcissists are
Hiding
1 Want to destablize you
2 They are testing you
3 They think you are a fool
They are a cat, you are a mouse
They think they are smarter than you
4 They are wearing a mask
5 They are data-banking you
6 They are trash talking you
7 They intend to discard you
8 They are looking for your replacement
9 You've been fooled
That they are narcissists
10 They knew what they were doing
Duper's delight
Take away You can get over them
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Bulletproof yourself from narcissists' abuse
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1. Prioritize assertiveness rather than submission
Lean into it
2. Prioritize your interest over their selfishness
3. Prioritize composure over chaos
Look for theatrics
4. Prioritize reality over NT illusions
Look for traits
5. Prioritize the spotlight over negligence
Exposure destroys narcissism
6 Prioritize control over manipulation
7 Prioritize security over sensitivity
Confidence
8 Prioritize victory over victimhood
Purpose to win
liverwurst
Lean into it; don't shy away
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Lawyer convicted of killing his mom; scamming clients / narcissism
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This is a case study of someone who was clinically diagnosed to be a narcissist.
As we [go through] this story, see if you can pick out the traits of a narcissist and psychopath.
His name is Richard Merritt and we'll begin by looking at his backstory.
Richard Vincent Merritt was born in 1974 in Virginia to Robert, an Air Force officer, and Shirley, a real estate agent.
Richard had an older brother, Robert II, but they weren't particularly close due to their age gap. The family moved frequently because of Robert Sr.'s job.
In 1987, Robert Sr. retired from the Air Force and took a high-paying job in Saudi Arabia, improving the family's financial situation considerably.
Richard had to move to Georgia for schooling, where his brother lived.
After high school, he pursued political science in college and later earned a law degree in Mississippi.
He married Janine, who was studying veterinary medicine at the time.
Richard passed the bar exam in 2000 and began his career as a civil litigator in Georgia.
Unfortunately, his father passed away in the same year, which deeply affected his mother, Shirley.
Now lets take a look at the story.
Richard and Janine had two children, living a seemingly luxurious life, thanks to Richard's successful law practice.
However, Richard's desire for more led him down a darker path.
Between 2014 and 2016, he embezzled over $400,000 from clients, leading to his arrest in 2017.
He lost his law license, his family, and eventually, his freedom.
In 2019, Richard pled guilty to theft charges and was sentenced to 15 years in prison. On the day he was supposed to report to prison, he vanished.
His ankle bracelet was found damaged at a gas station, and his mother, Shirley, was found murdered at her home.
Richard was eventually captured in Nashville, Tennessee, living under a fake identity.
At his murder trial, Richard testified that two men had broken into his mother's home and killed her, forcing him to flee.
However, evidence suggested Shirley had been financially exploited by Richard, owing her over $500,000. Richard's story was deemed unconvincing, and he was found guilty.
Now, let's tie it all together:
First, Richard's claim of two mysterious intruders doesn't add up. His actions after the alleged attack and his behavior during the trial were inconsistent with his story.
Financial documents indicated that Richard took advantage of his mother's generosity, owing her a significant amount. His lavish lifestyle seemed unsustainable given his financial troubles.
After fleeing to Nashville, Richard adopted a new identity, engaging in online dating and even finding a new job. It appeared he was more concerned about his social life than the murder charges against him.
Richard portrayed himself as a victim during his testimony, blaming others for his predicament. His lack of emotion and detail in describing the murder undermined his credibility.
In my opinion, Richard's impulsivity, materialism, and lack of remorse led to his mother's murder. His reckless behavior and financial misdeeds caught up with him, and his mother was the unfortunate victim.
In conclusion, Richard Merritt's case is the epitome of a classic narcissist and psychopath.
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The deadly consquences of narcissistic abuse
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1. Alternatives are worse
2. Risk of rejection - who cares?
3. Control
4. Mood enhancement of others
5. Words on a screen can be misleading
Words you say can be misleading
6. Practice talking
Become a voice actor
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Types of people that scare away narcissists
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6 People narcissists avoid
1 Other narcissists
2 Based and grounded
3 Self-confident
4 Educated / Aware
5 Assertive or charismatic individuals
6 Critics
Tie together Boundaries
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Words narcissist hate it when you say...
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1 you're wrong
2 what if
alternate plan; idea
3 none of your business
"That's private," "I'd rather not discuss that," or "That's personal information."
4 why?
Why do you ask
Why do you want to do that
5 are you a narcissist? (or being a narcissist)
6 no
Money, favors, rides
7 nothing
short phrases that empower you, disempower narcissist
marketing strategy
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How I make narcissists regret abusing me
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1 Demonstrate contentment
They want to throw you off center
2 Direct confrontation
Do you feel guilty? Do you have empathy?
Are you a narcissist?
3 Exploit their insecurities
4 Don't validate them
Don't "play with them"
5 Ignore them
6 Deflection: Change the subject
7 Show no weakness
Refuse to cooperate
8 Cultivate self confidence
The way you walk and talk
Non-verbal and verbal
9 Out pace them
They tend to lack patience
10 Educate yourself on their nature and tactics
11 Ask yourself, "Do I need this person?"
12 Dox them
13 Be honest
Tie together: Allow them to self destruct
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Break free from narcissists
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1 Call out their behavior
But don't copy (aside from sarcasm)
2 Disengage
no "combacks"
3 Don't go back
They exploit vulnerability
4 Agree using sarcasm
5 Question yourself
6 Don't sweat (keep calm)
laugh or smirk
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Narcissism rubs off -- Here's how to stop it!
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1 Not at peace with your mind
2 Embrace fanciful expectations
3 No curiosity or creativity
4 No follow up
5 Impulsive
Engage in self-destruction
You will continue to do what you enjoy doing
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Watch out for narcissistic rage!
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How narcissists show rage
1 Belittlement: remind you of your flaws
Exaggeration; salad-bar thinking
Make you feel unimportant
Invalidation vs affirmation
one in 400 quadrillion
1/20,000 odds of parents meeting
add your grandparents all the way back to Adam and Eve
1 in 10 / 45,000
1 in 10 / 2,685,000 power (universe 10 / 80th power)
2 Accuse others (specific failures)
I am not the cause of your ineptitude
3 Blame shifting (culmination of failures)
I didn't do it
4 Uncooperative
Passive aggressive
5 Live in a self-made reality
King or queen of the universe
6 Dominated by emotions
problems will never solve because they never address the cause
Create truth God complex
Temperment explosion
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How to exploit narcissists' soft spots
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softspots
1 Irrational
confused by drive to manipulate
infuse every conversation with reason
2 Self-destructive
exploit by doing nothing
3 Over confident
leaving them vulnerable
scope out their vulnerabilities (like doxing)
4 Can't maintain relationships
Become allies with
5 Inable to maintain communication
Keep telling the truth
6 Require validation to function
Nothing invalidates the narcissist like the truth
tie togethers Predictable because they are cyclical, stagnant
Can't change
love bomb/bond
invalidate
discard
smear campaign
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6 reasons to escape narcissistic control NOW
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The power of loneliness
Be alone
sympathetic nervous system: fight or flight ON EDGE
parasympathetic nervous stystem: rest and digest
1. Alone time increases empathy.
groups are us vs them
2. Solitude increases productivity.
count money / turn off car radio
Home schools
3. Solitude sparks creativity.
artist like to be alone Ian Fleming
James Bond, 007 Jamaica no windows
4. Less depressed
people
avoid rejection
5. Avoid destructive social skills
6. Find your own voice
Discover self-reliance
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THOUGHT CONTROL - How to break free from narcissists
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dependent thinking
2 Guard your mind your thoughts,
3 Expand your thoughts to embrace your potential
4 land of Giants / their weaknesses are my strengths
What are your strengths
What are your weaknesses
bad thoughts are contagious
5 Replace fears with thoughts
defeated by weak thinking
Acting out (meltdowns)
intimacy vs vulnerability
independence vs security
conflicts create solutions
What I eat today, I wear tomorrow
What I do today, I feel tomorrow
6 Don't fret, where are you
Not what you had, but what you have
Not where you were, but where you are
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Do this to avoid love-bombing narcissists
The first thing a narcissist typically does is engage in love bombing, showering you with excessive affection to establish a bond. To avoid being love-bombed, it's crucial to take control of the situation from the start. When encountering someone new, seize the initiative to maintain control, as narcissists thrive on having control.
By asserting yourself early on, you reduce the narcissist's chance of gaining control over you. While this approach isn't foolproof, it often deters narcissists who prefer easier targets. Finding your tribe or group is another effective strategy. Human nature inclines us to gravitate towards those similar to us, forming tribes based on shared interests or affiliations. However, be cautious as vulnerable groups, particularly those emphasizing altruism or empathy like religious organizations, may attract narcissists who mimic group members' behaviors to blend in. Joining such groups enables you to discern genuine members from potential narcissists.
Additionally, don't expect narcissists to openly dislike you, as they maintain a facade to uphold their image. Instead, they may subtly manipulate situations to their advantage. Stay vigilant and genuine, as narcissists despise authenticity and prefer easy targets. By being honest and assertive, you deter narcissists and maintain control over your interactions, making you less susceptible to manipulation. Remember, narcissists seek effortless ego boosts, so refusing to engage in their manipulative tactics prevents them from targeting you effectively.
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Narcissistic attack: Hidden signs you're being love bombed and love bonded
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1 Non-verbal cues
cold shoulder
2 Competition
crowd control
3 Everyone but you
4 Disinterest
5 Dismissive
6 Sarcasm, mockery
7 Aggitated by your presence
condescending
8 Pleasure in your failure
9 Fault finding
Focus on self
all roads lead to...
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Why narcissists hate silence
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1 Silence allows us to notice what others miss2 Silence allows us to listen It allows you to listen You are the artist. What are drawings?3 Silence allows us to focus Drive with the radio on4 Silence allows us to form a sense of direction5 Silence allows us to see opportunity6 Silence allows us to see danger7 Silence allows us to hear our inner dialogue8 Silence allows us to show others how to listen
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How to get narcissists out of your head and off your mind
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Ultimately, who wields authority over your cognition? Who reigns supreme over your thoughts? One might argue that we, as individuals, hold dominion over our thoughts. Yet, consider this: someone utters a remark, implanting a notion within our minds, or we witness something, unable to erase it from our memory. These external stimuli mold our thoughts, beyond our control. Perhaps our extensive life experiences, spanning decades, further shape our cognitive landscape, each encounter leaving an indelible mark.
These thoughts, akin to a hive mind, possess a life of their own. They belong to a collective consciousness, akin to ants returning to their hive. Yet, we need not permit them to linger. Like an unwelcome ant intruding upon our sanctuary, we must dispatch these thoughts, lest they attract more of their kind, overwhelming us.
Some individuals, knowingly or unknowingly, deposit thoughts into our minds, intentionally or unintentionally inflicting harm. However, our power lies in our response. We need not dwell upon these intruding thoughts. Instead, we possess the ability to brush them aside, maintaining a pristine mental landscape.
Principle one: once heard or seen, thoughts cannot be erased. However, we can redirect our focus, refusing to dwell on them. Principle two: dwelling on thoughts leads to internalization. Principle three: internalized thoughts shape our being. Therefore, by controlling our thoughts, we shape our destiny.
Consider the influence of external sources on our thinking. Whether deliberate or inadvertent, they wield power over our minds. Yet, we need not succumb to their influence. Instead, we must reclaim control over our thoughts, guiding them towards positive trajectories.
We must acknowledge the reality of external influences while refusing to allow them to dictate our self-perception. Each negative thought harbors the potential to burgeon into a mental monster, distorting our reality. By confronting and displacing these thoughts, we regain mastery over our minds.
So, I implore you: reflect upon the thoughts occupying your mind. Are they empowering or debilitating? By subscribing to a mindset of empowerment, we chart a course towards self-actualization.
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Take it seriously but NOT PERSONALLY / entrapping narcissists
1 Seriously, but not personally
We are being hunted by "sportsmen" who lure us into their traps by playing on our innate reaction response.
What we think is self-defense is often self-deception.
2 Regulate self talk
You know they are inside your head
Recognizing the stories we tell ourselves.
Questioning assumptions and seeking clarity through assertive communication.
3 Tactical retreat
Lure to offender away from the high ground
Act responsibly, not responsively
4 Understand turf wars
It's all about provocation which is all about ego
Understanding where the other person ends and you begin.
Recognizing when it's not about you and when it is, and responding accordingly.
5 Solid Foundation of Self-Worth
Building internal security by clarifying personal values and striving to embody
them.
Stay in your lane and let the offender make the mistakes
Seeking feedback within a secure foundation.
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9 ways you out-class narcissists
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Authenticity: Being true to oneself and avoiding pretense.
Honesty: Communicating straightforwardly without resorting to manipulation or deceit.
Active Listening: Knowing when to speak and when to listen, respecting others' voices.
Resilience: Bouncing back from adversity and standing firm against manipulation.
Independence: Charting one's own path and avoiding entanglement in manipulation.
Confidence without Arrogance: Recognizing one's abilities without displaying superiority or entitlement.
Consideration for Others: Acting with empathy and altruism, rather than self-serving motives.
Diligence: Approaching tasks with dedication and purpose, avoiding shortcuts or laziness.
Self-Control: Thinking before acting and considering the implications of one's actions, avoiding impulsivity.
So, we're about to connect these nine elements together in a moment. When I put these points together, I was originally going to title the video "How to outshine a narcissist." As I pondered these aspects, it struck me that most individuals are already embodying them. It's not about learning them anew but rather being conscious of our actions, thereby outshining narcissists. Perhaps you're not incorporating all nine of these characteristics. Let's delve into them, and if you resonate with any, feel free to share your thoughts in the comments.
Firstly, authenticity is key. Being true to yourself is pivotal. Narcissists often exude a facade of grandiosity, whether overtly or covertly. It's not just about appearances; it's ingrained in their personality and demeanor. They thrive on masking their true selves, sometimes resorting to fabricating elaborate pasts to elevate their status and obscure their vulnerabilities.
Outclassing a narcissist involves accepting oneself genuinely, without pretense. It's about being straightforward in communication, avoiding the web of deceit narcissists often spin. They excel at manipulation and deceit, but genuine honesty and clarity are our strengths.
Furthermore, mastering the art of silence is crucial. While narcissists tend to dominate conversations, true confidence lies in knowing when to listen and when to speak. This skill sets us apart from them, showcasing our genuine interest in others and our respect for their voices.
Strength and resilience are also paramount. While narcissists may attempt to undermine us, our ability to bounce back and stand firm in the face of adversity is our triumph over them. We refuse to be dragged down by their manipulative tactics; instead, we rise above, steadfast in our resolve.
Independence and self-reliance characterize our approach. While we may seek advice and support from others, we ultimately chart our own paths. Narcissists, on the other hand, are often entangled in their own webs of manipulation, lacking true autonomy.
Confidence devoid of arrogance is another hallmark of our demeanor. We recognize our abilities without succumbing to hubris, unlike narcissists who often exude an air of superiority and entitlement.
Consideration for others distinguishes us from narcissists' self-serving motives. Our altruism and empathy guide our actions, while narcissists' kindness often masks ulterior motives or serves as a means of manipulation.
Moreover, diligence and industriousness define our work ethic. We approach tasks with dedication and purpose, unlike narcissists who often shirk responsibility and seek shortcuts.
Lastly, self-control and thoughtfulness underpin our behavior. We weigh our actions carefully, considering their implications, whereas narcissists often act impulsively, driven solely by their desires.
In essence, the key differentiator between us and narcissists is our capacity for critical thinking and genuine empathy. By embodying these traits, we not only outshine narcissists but also foster healthier relationships and personal growth.
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9 powerful new strategies to DEFEAT narcissists
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Alright, let's break it down. Number one: boost your brainpower, amp up that IQ. I know what you're thinking—intelligence, it's all in the genes, right? But hold up. We're diving into some stealth tactics to outsmart the narcissists in your circle, and one of them involves getting sharper upstairs. Yet, many folks brush this off.
Before you dismiss the idea, let's talk about something called the Flynn effect. It's a real eye-opener. See, global IQ scores are on a decline. Yup, you heard me right. As life gets more tech-savvy and supposedly simpler, our collective IQs are taking a nosedive.
What's causing this nosedive, you ask? Some blame it on our reliance on technology, making us lazy thinkers. It's a plausible theory. But you know what I think? Well, it's just my two cents, but here it is.
I've noticed a curious correlation—bear with me, it's not causation, but hear me out—between the rise in obesity and the drop in smarts. Strange, huh? Seems like as we pack on the pounds, we're also shedding brainpower.
Could it be that being overweight dulls our cognitive edge, or is it the other way around? My money's on the latter. We're not feeding our brains right. It's a bizarre era we're living in, folks.
Throughout history, hunger was the norm. Starvation lurked around every corner. But now, it's the opposite. Too much grub, not enough brain fuel.
Ever thought about sailing back in time? Picture this: a cruise to the New World. But rewind a bit further, and those ships weren't luxury liners—they were death traps. Survival rates were abysmal. That was just life back then. But today? Nah, it's all about abundance.
We're drowning in food, and it's taking a toll on our mental acuity. So, if you're looking to outwit a narcissist, start with beefing up your brainpower. How? Well, let's dig into that in a bit. But first things first: eat real food.
Yeah, I said it. Skip the processed junk aisle at the grocery store. Fill up on stuff that nourishes both body and mind. Need pointers? Hit the web and start digging. That's how I turned my life around, shedding over a hundred pounds.
And guess what? Science backs it up. Eating right isn't just good for the waistline; it's a brain booster too. Now, onto tactic number two: people watching, or as I like to call it, decoding human behavior.
Ever noticed those folks who breeze past narcissists like they're nothing? They've got some secret sauce, let me tell you. Meanwhile, others crumble at the slightest jab. I've been there, trust me.
So, let's study the pros and the cons. What makes them tick? And more importantly, what makes me tick? Hint: it's not just about IQ. It's about mindset.
Next up, we've got brain banter. Yup, talking to yourself can actually be a game-changer. Think about it—narcissists are constantly feeding us lies, preying on our insecurities.
How do we fight back? By flipping the script. Speak to yourself like you're your own best friend. Keep it real, though. None of that fake flattery. Our brains crave honesty, even if it stings a bit.
And let's not forget to hit the mental gym. Just like we pump iron to sculpt our physique, we've got to work those mental muscles too. Time to purge those doubts, those cringeworthy memories that haunt us.
Successful folks? They don't waste time dwelling on past mistakes. They move forward, unfazed by the haters. It's time we took a page from their playbook.
Speaking of which, ever heard of game theory? It's like chess for life. Anticipate the narcissist's moves, stay one step ahead. No more playing the victim. It's time to take control of the board.
Now, onto the underrated duo: exercise and diet. Yeah, I know, it sounds cliché. But trust me, it's a game-changer. A healthier body equals a sharper mind. And that's your secret weapon against narcissists.
So, skip the junk, lace up those sneakers, and hit the pavement. You'll thank me later.
But knowledge is power, right? That's where K-U-W comes in: Knowledge, Understanding, Wisdom. It's not just about cramming facts; it's about making sense of them and applying them to your life.
Lastly, let's talk legacy. What do you want to leave behind when your time's up? Not your typical bucket list stuff. Think deeper. What truly matters when the clock's ticking down?
Cherish those moments, those connections that light up your life. Because in the end, that's what it's all about.
So there you have it—nine strategies to outsmart the narcissists in your life. Take 'em or leave 'em, but remember: you've got the power to rewrite your story.
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Life-long injuries inflicted by narcissists
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1 Suppression (Turtle syndrome):
Intimidation breeds inhibition. Fight, flight or shrink into our shells.
Exposure to narcissistism/abusive behavior is disempowering.
Narcissists/abusers destroy you for what you do or do not do
Belittlement, abuse, hate, ridicule, criticism, and lack of recognition.
Possum syndrome
2 Stop trying:
One exit: Quit trying. Low sense of self worth
From "they won't allow me" to "I can't"
Someone holding a door shut; otherwise you could walk through.
You'll never know your true potential because you fear taking the next step.
Marathon? Not even the first step.
When you get to your end-of-life decades, you ask, "What if I'd moved forward?"
3 Mental exhaustion:
Suppressing talents leads to negative self image and even self hatred.
I wish I were someone else. (I wish you would go somewhere else)
Devaluation by narcissists/abusers is gaslighting.
4 Inhibitions:
To hide ability to is stunt growth.
Fear of narcissistic/abusive response inhibits development and, therefore, fulfillment.
5 Impact:
Buried abilities result in chronic stress, anxiety, not to mention, lost opportunties
You no longer recognize your authenticity or potential and embrace the false self imposed upon you.
Life fulfillments are lost due to absolute surrender. Economic, emotions, social, etc.
Tie it all together:
What if you could be the self you would have been had it not been for abuse of others?
Literally lose my voice. Inhibition/intimidation
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Signs narcissists are envious OF YOU!
🙚 Narcissists target individuals they perceive as superior to themselves to compensate for their own feelings of inferiority.
🙚 They exhibit both envy and jealousy, desiring what others have while also not wanting others to have what they possess.
🙚 Narcissists operate with a mindset akin to entitled toddlers, feeling entitled to everything.
🙚 They constantly crave validation and admiration, seeking to fill a void within themselves through manipulating of others.
🙚 Narcissists engage in constant comparison with others to compensate for their feelings of inadequacy.
🙚 They defend their perceived prestige aggressively and seek to elevate themselves by putting others down.
🙚 Despite their outward arrogance, narcissists lack true self-confidence and use it as a cover-up.
🙚 They have an insatiable appetite for validation and are never satisfied with what they have.
🙚 Victims should recognize the personal nature of narcissistic abuse but also understand that they are just one of many targets.
🙚 Narcissism is often a coping mechanism for deep-seated feelings of inferiority, but sympathy for narcissists should be limited as they can seek help but often choose not to.
🙚 Narcissism is acting superior to compensate for inferior feelings.
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12 things narcissists do to trip us
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☙ The text discusses 12 tactics narcissists use to manipulate and control others.
☙ These tactics include instilling fear of failure, dwelling on past mistakes, avoiding personal growth, and making snap decisions.
☙ Narcissists also encourage procrastination, engage in gossip and smear campaigns, and create petty disagreements.
☙ They may pressure individuals to live beyond their means, ignore their health, and resist positive changes.
☙ Additionally, narcissists discourage seeking advice from sources other than themselves.
☙ Overall, the text emphasizes the importance of being aware of these tactics and resisting narcissistic influence.
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