Signs He's Not Interested In You - Avoid Embarrasment & Rejection!

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Signs He's Just Not That Into You
By: Carlos Cavallo

So the movie He’s Just Not That Into You is based on the 2004 book of the same name by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. Which - of course - has some ties to the show "Sex & The City" starring Carrie Bradshaw... er, I mean Sarah Jessica Parker. (It's so easy to forget which is her real name!)

Have you ever wondered if the guy you are dating is "just not that into you"? It's a common question - with some unexpected answers.

So let's take a look at some of the ways you can tell if your guy is really into your relationship. AND you!

The reality is that dating is more complicated than it used to be. AND it's actually EASIER than it used to be.

Hey - Which is it? Easier? More complicated?

Actually, it's both.

It's easier than ever to meet people... which makes it much more complicated to find someone that will stick it out and love you. We've all got "fast-food" syndrome when it comes to dating.

Don't like this guy? Go fire up an app on your phone and find a replacement in the next 10 minutes!

What? You think this person might have some small trait that you don't want to deal with? Go online and get a date or a hookup TONIGHT!

What? Your husband is boring you and you want a sugar daddy?

Sure - I'm being a little sarcastic here, but not as much as you might think. It's true that with all the new apps and ways of meeting people that we tend to not invest ourselves in a relationship anymore. It's too easy to "trade him in" and get a fresh new relationship - that will have its own problems and challenges.

We are bypassing all these wonderful opportunities to grow just because we think there's always someone else waiting on the Internet to be found.

As someone once said, too many choices make you change your mind. All that choice leads us to believe that the answer to our problems is simply MORE choice.

And the unfortunate side-effect of today's "look at me" culture is that most people want attention and validation more than they want emotional, heartfelt connection.

The real problem is the number of articles and columns that are misleading you out there. Let me share a few of the most dangerous articles you can read:

Want to know why those articles are complete B.S.?

Stick with me as we dive in -

7 Signs He's Just Not That Into You

Sign #1 He Doesn't Like You As Much As You Like Him: He's not chasing you...

I'm going to say this in the clearest way possible. If you read this and GET IT - you are way ahead of 90% of the population:

CARLOS' RULE OF DESIRE: If a guy likes you, he will chase you and pursue you.
That's it, my dear. There's no other way to speak the truth so clearly.

If he likes you, he WILL chase you.

There are no exceptions to this rule.

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Do you remember...?

But I get it, there's a part of you that doesn't WANT to believe this could be true. I've been there, too. You meet someone really cool and sexy - and they show a little interest. The last thing you want to believe is that this was a lie of some kind.

How could anyone change their mind about being into you? Right?

Well I'll explain how this happens in a bit. But for now, recognize that you're partially right - they can't just "change their mind" about you.

Sign #2 You're Better Than Nothing: His Ex Is Still Around...
Yeah. His ex.

She's there in his life when you know she shouldn't be.

He talks about her all the time, even if they got divorced 5 years ago...

When a guy's ex is TOO much in the picture, you've got problems. And the reality is that he's just not over her.

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Dating history? Don't be afraid to ask.

Let me ask you a question: If your grocery store were giving away a giant basket of juicy strawberries for free at your grocery, would you eat them?

Sure you probably would - if you like strawberries.

Okay - Now what if someone walked up to you on the street with a nice basket of juicy strawberries and gave it to you for free ... would you eat them?

You'd probably think twice, wouldn't you? You'd probably want to know where those strawberries came from. Never mind if they were sealed in plastic or what. If you didn't know what the background of those strawberries were, you'd be really concerned.

But you'd be surprised how many women don't...

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