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"Is He Serious About Me?" - 7 Signs He's A Keeper
By: Carlos Cavallo

The question comes up in almost EVERY single relationship: "Is He Serious About Me? Or Is He Just Playing Games?" You need to know what his intentions are.

Dating in your 40s is tough enough. You don't want to waste years of your life waiting to find out if he's serious about you and the relationship.

7 Signs Hes A Keeper

After a while you have to stop engaging in the fairy tale part of romance and get realistic with yourself - and him. You just can't waste your time on a relationship that is going nowhere.

And let's face facts - a lot of guys will seem like they're leading you on and wasting your time.

But - as I'm about to explain to you - you can practically guarantee his interest in you - if you know what to look for.

First, let's clear up some things you might be thinking about men that are not entirely accurate...

MYTH ABOUT MEN'S INTEREST: He's easily scared of his feelings...
This one is a great excuse for why guys do things, but it's almost never real. Men don't run around in sheer terror about their feelings as some people might tell you.

No, we don't run away the second we start having feelings for a woman...

No, we don't scream in sheer terror the moment we notice ourselves falling in love...

These stereotypes of men are created mostly because they accomplish a few things:

The stereotype lines up with the accepted wisdom about men, so we buy into them quickly and easily...

The stereotype sounds true - after all, guys are painted as the emotionally unavailable commitment-phobes...

The stereotype lets you off the hook...

#3 is the most important one to consider - that these excuses about men seem true.

It will always sound better to accept a thin excuse like "men are emotionally unavailable" than believing there's a reason he decided to back off, right?

Beware the urge you might have to paint men as emotionally incompetent scaredy-cats. This is a Hollywood myth that you've been fed in movies and television. And they keep giving you more of it because most women have been unknowingly tricked into believing it.

I'll be up-front and honest and tell you that it's also true that a man will use these excuses himself - if it's convenient. If a guy is looking to get out of a relationship, he'll probably pull the "it's not you, it's me" excuse - which makes it easier on you. He'll tell you he's "scared" - or "not ready."

But the truth is that he just doesn't want to admit that he's not all that into you.

When it comes to a breakup, both people in a relationship have a part in how it plays out.

In fact, you can tell everything you need to know about a guy by asking him one simple question: "Why did your last relationship end?" If he comes up with a bunch of "it was her fault" excuses, move on. He's blind to his own flaws.

Or his ego is too big.

Either way, it's not going to work out well for you to start a relationship with him.

MYTH ABOUT MEN'S INTEREST: He Will Run From Happiness...
Similar to the previous myth, this myth confuses you into thinking: "He's so afraid of how much he loves me that he pulls away!"

NOPE. Never happens.

If he's into you, he will chase you, hunt you down, and make you his girlfriend and eventually his wife.

Guys don't run around denying themselves love. We want it just as badly as you do.

So don't ever confuse yourself with this myth - men don't avoid their own happiness by running away from loving relationships - or from you. He only pulls away when he realizes this relationship might not be what he thought it was.

MYTH ABOUT MEN'S INTEREST: Men are always keeping you in the Friend-with-Benefits zone...

Again, not true. Most men do not have meaningless sex to avoid intimacy.

And even more astonishing is that most guys don't really want to have sex with every woman they possibly can. Well, okay, maybe a little of this happens when he's in his late teens and early 20s. But let's face it, most women aren't looking to settle down when they're that young, either.

Yes, there are a few guys who are wired to be "players" in the old school traditional sense. These guys make up about 5% or less of the population. And they do this because -

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