I Don’t Want to Lose Him, but Maybe He’s Already Gone

3 years ago

Question: My bf and I were dating for a couple months (half of which we were exclusive). He always said he missed me and talked about a long future together. Then suddenly one morning he asks for a break—an extended break with no time frame given. I gave him space for 3 weeks with zero contact, then I sent him a funny Instagram post to make a casual new connection. He responded! He said he didn’t know we were talking to which I replied that I was thinking of him and decided to reach out. Then hours later sent me a quote, “There’s that one person you’ll never get over no matter how long it’s been.” I asked what he meant by it and he said, “You know.” So, I said we should catch up and tried to make a plan for a couple days later. But he said he had to work. So, I left it saying, “We should catch up. You know how to reach me and I’d love to see you.” It’s been a few days and he’s done nothing. Could it be that he still has deep feelings for me but still needs more space? I’m not sure how to approach him. This is a guy I’m not ready to lose and I believe that he still likes me, too.

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