Relationship Repair (Part 4 of 5) Giving of your Concern in a way that can be heard

We continue to look at how to manage conflict in relationships. Even master couples have conflict. Thus so, knowing how to manage conflict in relationships is of utmost importance.

This week is #4 of a 5 part series, and we look specifically at how to give your concern in a way that can be heard in order to demonstrate how to manage conflict in relationships rather than just continuing to struggle.

This video set helps to illustrate how to deliver conflict management - particularly affecting marriage and couples. This series addresses how to manage conflict in relationships and can partner with marriage counseling or be used to birth really good communication and birth stress management, never having to get couples counseling.

We all want similar things…connection…joy…peace? These things doing happen when we don't understand how to manage conflict in relationships. We also want to know that above all things, that we matter, really matter to someone. Even when we do know this, there will just be times that conflict erupts. Because of this certainty, we'd also better be really good at repairing. But how? It's hard, we know. The is great news. Thanks to the stellar research of Drs. John and Julia Gottman, we now know about the 4 things that destroy marriages. John humorously tagged them "The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" and says that when you hear the thumping of their hooves, the demise of the relationship is at hand. It's odd, but the other side of that same coin is also the good news. We also know the 4 things that save relationships bringing about a template for how to manage conflict in relationships.

In this 5 part video series, we use the word DANCE to illustrate what Master couples do. Each letter represents one unhealthy thing to avoid and one skill to employ as the antidote. This fourth video focuses upon the fourth antidote: Concerning vs Criticizing. We've go to give our concerns…our complaints in a way that can be heard. Invest these few minutes in these 5 videos and see what happen. You might just change your life and someone else's too…

Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE!

Here is our social media that you can FOLLOW for updates and posts:
Facebook - @boldneverbitter
Twitter - @boldneverbitter

Attribution
Rush Hour - Directed by Brett Ratner - 1998
Friday the 13th Part 2 - Directed by Steve Miner - 1981

Hi, everyone! Thanks for checking out Tabletop Coffee on YouTube! By trade, Keith Dunn is a Network Computer Engineer, and Chuck Rodgers is a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. Together, they are Tabletop Coffee. We love coffee, we love to chat, and we love to do life well. Our purpose, as our Tagline says, is to do life well by being Bold and never Bitter.

****PLEASE READ****

****Disclaimer****
If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 911, or your local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency department for care. Information provided with this channel is neither intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice and is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician or quasi-physician relationship. The information provided is strictly informational. You should not use information on this website or the information on links or products from or featured on this site or the content on this YouTube channel (or any part thereof) to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease. For any of these or related issues, please consult a qualified professional.