To the Person Who Thinks Depression Is a Choice

Some people think of depression as nothing more than intense sadness. They associate every element and every symptom of depression as just another stage or mood that, in fact, is not believed to. Depression is not sadness and certainly not mood. This is a state of mind, which is certainly not very pleasant; Which can seriously affect life and its ongoing processes.

Depression is the stinging bee that doesn't hum but lives as long as it wants; Unless you are fast enough to catch it or get away from it. Trying to get out of depression, state of mind is one option, but getting into it is never one. No one chooses to be sick; The disease comes on its own.
This is how the events of our life are such that we become victims of mental illnesses; We take what life throws at us in such a way that we get sick, not in our bodies but in our minds. We don't choose to dive into the pit of misery because that's what we're expected to do when life doesn't suit us, we don't choose to do it at all. It's not even a pit of sorrow at all.

Depression is rooted. Depression is stability. Depression is looking up at the sky and not seeing the turbulence of the clouds because you never really see. Your eyes are still but your mind wanders to places that are empty, where every step you take, every word you say resonates with you and where no one is there to listen and respond to your voices.

Sadness is not sadness, but sadness. It is the name of a feeling that takes away all hope, turns you away from aspirations and sucks every inch of your life. Means disappear from things, smiles aren't cheerful because you know what comes after them, and every other day is long hours of contemplating nothing but the confusing purposelessness that your life has become. - Continue reading on the next page

It can be difficult to detect the depression within you, especially as people around you are constantly telling you temporary ways to be happy, only making you suspicious about your state of mind. Detecting depression can be as confusing as it needs to be. Maybe I'm just overreacting, or I just need a day off, that may be the excuse you give to yourself instead of welcoming the idea of ​​depression, because you've been told depression is an option. Ignoring it will make you feel like you've loosened your grip, you can leave it behind whenever you want, that it's really an option.

But you will only be doing your own harm. You'll spend a day or two off, but with nothing changing, you'll realize it was never in your hands. Depression is like any other illness, you don't want to diagnose it and there are cures for it; The only factor that makes it stand out is that it cannot be clearly seen by the person who has it and the person who wants to fix it.

Depression is treatable; Medicine and medicines help, but only if you know it really is.

No matter how hard it is to live through it, figure it out, and try to fix it, depression is definitely not an option. Who would like to spend every single thing of their life away from life? Who would want to experience the stinging mental pain of everything they do? Who would possibly want to choose something so poisonous for themselves?

Depression is no joke, and it certainly isn't sadness. There is no telling how long a person can be depressed. People spend their childhood in depression, they do not realize this until they grow up. Some people spend a good part of their youth in depression until they become aware of their unusual outlook on life, while others spend only months.

It is a battle with yourself that you fight every day. Thinking about suicide and thinking about ways to be more lonely than yourself are things that no one would choose for their enemy, let alone themselves.

To everyone who thinks depression is an option: It's not. It is a disease, just as harmful as any other deadly disease.

The person who has its feels burdened with unanswered questions and needs help. His illness gets worse every day, the bees circling around him get bigger every day, so don't feed him unless you're trying to help the dead bee clap. Don't tell the person that he or she has chosen to suffer because it will make it difficult for them to come out of it.

Friends you can share your past experience with me.
Have you been sad in your life? How did you come out of it? How are you dealing with this? I'm here to listen, share your thoughts with me in the comments below!