115 THE TRUTH Planning vs Resilience

Search for truth, so I'm not sure I talked about changing her life to embrace change. The same yourself, well if that's the case, then 0 plan how I can arrange for things. If life is changed because everything is planned for, it will go the window; anything could happen if anything can happen that's right ended up in. So how do you plan? When you have no idea what will happen next, you have no idea what will happen next. Simple. Instead of planning for using the. I tried an accurate project management method of saying, okay, this will happen, and this will happen, and this will happen, it's going to happen, it's going to happen. Which. Trust me, the moment had. It's going to be out of date, and you have to keep changing it. You can come out with that let me that plane is exemplary. It's good to have a plan like that. Still, it doesn't have to be super detailed because if you do super careful planning more than anything, more than likely it's going to change entirely wholly. That plan is going to be thrown out the window you have to change all the time, okay, so I can understand that some people you know may have problems with that, and they'd love to be able to plan things down to the nth degree, but again life is change, and things change over time, so your plans going to work. You might work at a high level, but beyond that, it won't. So we have to do will you have to be resilient. You have to plan for resilience. I'll give an example right, so I'm on the east coast. You have terrible weather every winter you know you're going to have snow we can of coldness leading to this you know that you can buy park as you can buy boots you can buy cars snow tires you can do all those things. I understand that. When these things occur, you can be ready for the. And that's great, but do you still don't know you may have a terrible winter you may have a comfortable winter you never know, but you prepare right you get ready for it. But you don't exactly know what you're going to get, but you do kind. Over here on the west coast, we have great weather. The weather's excellent here, so we don't have the bike booster code Sir or scarves or stuff like that unless you want to go up to Tahoe to do some skiing. We have excellent weather year-round. But we also have earthquakes; right we have a quake could flatness at any time in fact whenever we have an earthquake we always get that same story we published in the paper there it could have a massive earthquake sometime in the next 50 years yes we know that sometime in the next 50 years thanks what will concern ourselves with that. We do we prepare by being resilient, so if the hurricane were to happen so we can't, we can't plan we've no idea we can assert hurricane. We can say okay, the earthquakes that occurred on 11/23/2020 we have no idea when the next week's going to happen it could never happen or may happen tomorrow. We plan to bounce back from the earthquake, so whenever the earthquake occurs, we are ready to get back to work again to get back to school to get back to life as quickly as we possibly can, so we prepare. To be resilient as opposed to preparing. The plant. In that's why saying that though life is kind of like a combination of those two things, on the one hand, yes you should plan a little bit there should be some planning. Still, it doesn't have to be super detailed high-level planning which says you have to do this on this day if I do this on this day you have to do this on this day of did this on the state because as I said earlier, life is change. Those things could change a lot a high-level plan where roughly this is going to occur here here here rep ranges etcetera that's good that's all you need. But you also need to be prepared if something bad were to go wrong 40 pounds back from it how to be resilient when these things happen because something is going to hit you whether you live on the east coast to the west coast some black swan it's going to come in and turn your life because that is the way life is it is changing. All you have to do to be prepared for the change is to be prepared to bounce back, so you have to look at both planning and resilience as two sides of the same coin. You can blame him, but don't plan too tightly because life is changed. It would help if you still had a good foundation of being resilient, and then that'll move you forward. Not everybody understands but if you know, let's change, you see the need to be resilient.