Man Climbs Tree In Attempt To Hide From Wife

Have you ever thought about hiding from your partner after an argument? You must follow this man's strategies and hide in a tree! People often have problems with their partner, which is quite normal, since occasionally there may be small disagreements, but sometimes things get much worse. In this video you can see the funny moment in which a man tries to escape and meet his wife, for this he climbs a tree and tries to stay there without the wife noticing, but finally the wife discovers it. It happened on October 4, 2019 / Maracanau, Ceará, Brazil. It seems that today is not a lucky day for this man!

As the fights in the couple appear beyond the stage of falling in love and, depending on the intensity of the relationship (if they live together from the beginning, if they reside in other cities), this occurs between 7 months and 2 years of life of the relationship. It is the so-called transition from the ideal family system to the real family system. According to expert psychologists in family care and relationships, discussions at the beginning of the relationship are healthy from the perspective of adjusting the couple.

At first, everything is wonderful in the relationship and the other person has no defects or, rather, both parties ignore many defects that may not satisfy them as much as they thought. The readjustment stage is necessary and involves a discussion, since we have to accept the defects of others and ours, make concessions and, of course, maintain our own and individual identity with respect to others. The great inconvenience occurs when this stage never ends, but extends over time. The usual reasons why a couple discusses are generally their own insecurity, families of origin, lack of communication at the beginning of the relationship, excessive idealization, lack of common goals and projects, comfort and disinterest on the part of one of the members.

The relationship is forged during the first years and is maintained from there (constantly taken care of and innovated). It is an important project that, together with the personal projects of each individual, implies a state of satisfaction. The problem? When members have not communicated about their needs, countless discussions are likely to arise.

Some studies have determined that the couples they discuss have a healthier and stronger relationship. Of course, it depends on how it is discussed. A discussion in which one or both members disrespect, only seek to dominate or reason, shout and discredit the person and try to maintain their position, even at the risk of ending the relationship, is not a good example of what this study concluded . The healthy couple discussions should include these factors: that the will of both is to reach an agreement that benefits both and that at all times speak based on an argument on the subject.

There is a very common mistake in couple fights and it is precisely that they are fights. Members do not seek to reach an agreement, nor understand the other, but only want to be right. Obviously, if so, it is impossible to agree and there is a tendency to include other complaints that have nothing to do with the main reason in the discussion. This man is in serious trouble!