Weducation Day - The one where we talk about having a hobby

Start something just for you - a weekly thing for an hour or two, just for you - have an interest, take a walk, take part in something that is specific for you, however, hopefully it is something you are willing to invite your spouse along to once in a while. Don't take it away from yourself, but try to include your loved one so that they can be a part of what you are doing to know you better