I Took My Wife Hostage for 7 Hours— How She Saved Us Both

In this conversation, Tom Cruz shares his story of taking his wife hostage during a mental health crisis and the subsequent journey of recovery and advocacy. He discusses the importance of support systems, the challenges veterans face, and the need for better mental health resources.

Tom emphasizes the role of his wife in his recovery and the significance of open communication about mental health within families. He also highlights the importance of understanding trauma and the need for a supportive community to help individuals navigate their mental health challenges.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Context
01:07 Tom Cruz's Background and Military Career
02:26 The Hostage Situation: A Turning Point
07:52 The Role of Communication in Crisis
09:10 Aftermath and Recovery
18:38 Understanding Mental Health and Support Systems
26:27 Legal Implications and Personal Accountability
34:53 The Journey of Reclaiming a Beloved Pet
35:40 The Impact of Gun Storage Laws on Families
37:44 Leadership and Vulnerability in Sharing Personal Stories
39:31 Building a Support System for Mental Health
41:24 Empowering Children to Understand Mental Health
43:38 The Role of Listening in Crisis Situations
48:15 Navigating Firearm Ownership and Mental Health
54:01 Changing Mindsets in the Jail and Prison System
58:24 Collaborating for Suicide Prevention Resources