Don't force it

Men have a scarcity mindset, we are terrified of losing women. So we fight desperately to force it to work and force her to stay, even tho its already gone.

Women are never satisfied and always imagine that the grass is greener. So they usually play the perfectionist game. They never settle with the man they want because he is missing the one Lego piece that she thinks is important.

That's okay! We can have our preferences and there is nothing wrong with that.

But the price for the men is extremely high in time, money and energy to withstand being the force category. And the women are not playing against the men... They are playing against the clock. They won't see it until it's too late tho.

That's the best conclusion I can write.