186: Be Curious NOT Furious- Dr. Matt

In this episode of the Young Dad podcast, host Jewell Young welcomes back Dr. Matt Zakreski, a clinical psychologist specializing in neurodivergent individuals. They discuss the importance of community for dads, the unique needs of gifted and neurodivergent children, and the challenges of navigating school systems. Dr. Matt shares insights from his new book, 'The Neurodiversity Playbook,' which aims to provide practical strategies for parents and educators. The conversation emphasizes the significance of emotional intelligence in parenting and offers tools for effective communication with children.

Takeaways
Community is essential for dads, especially those who are neurodivergent.
Gifted children require different support, not better support.
Understanding your rights as a parent is crucial in advocating for your child.
Emotional authenticity helps in co-regulating with children.
Dads should actively participate in their child's education and advocacy.
Curiosity over anger fosters better communication with children.
Practical tools, like the bubbles test, can help manage emotions.
Using games like Uno can teach emotional language to kids.
The Neurodiversity Playbook offers accessible strategies for families.
Creating a supportive environment is key to a child's success.

Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Neurodiversity and Community Support
05:10 Understanding Giftedness and Neurodivergence
09:30 Navigating School Systems and Parental Rights
14:40 The Importance of Dads in Advocacy
19:04 The Neurodiversity Playbook: Insights and Strategies
24:07 Emotional Intelligence and Co-Regulation in Parenting
27:15 Emotional Regulation and Communication
29:04 Curiosity Over Fury in Parenting
31:45 The Importance of Naming Emotions
35:00 Using Games to Teach Emotional Intelligence
40:15 Adapting Parenting Strategies for Neurodivergent Kids
43:56 Connecting with Kids Through Shared Interests

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