It’s Hard To Believe That Things Can Get Better After Divorce | 3 Secrets That Will Help

When you’re in such a dark place, it can feel impossible to even believe in the light. But that doesn’t mean it isn’t there. Here are three secrets I’ve learned from working with men who struggled to believe that they could heal and be happy after divorce. I think they’ll help you start to believe as well.

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I’m Rachael Sloan, Master NLP Practitioner, certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce. I've helped hundreds of men move past the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. I hope to help you do the same.

DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.

A while back I interviewed a client, Bob, about his experience moving on from divorce. When I asked him what he would say to someone who was back where he was 6 months earlier, in the kind of endless darkness that Bob was fighting when I met him, he just laughed.
“I don’t know what I could say”.
He told me that he watched a lot of testimonial videos when he was going through his divorce, and saw all these men talking about how it gets better.
He couldn’t believe it back then.

When you’re in that place, it can feel impossible to even believe in the light.
So here are three secrets I’ve learned from working with men who struggled to believe that they could heal and be happy after divorce:
1. When you don’t know how something is possible, it is hard to believe it is possible.
If I could travel back in time and tell someone in 1850 that a just one hundred years later their great, great grandkids would be sitting in comfortable reclining seats 5 miles above the earth’s surface moving at 500 mph on their way to Christmas dinner with their family on the other side of the Atlantic ocean, they would have thought I was crazy.
If you haven’t seen it done and you don’t know how it works, you can’t believe in it. The brain just says nope, impossible.
If you’re struggling to believe that your life could get better after divorce, it’s because you don’t yet know how such a thing is possible.

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