The conversations you should have before getting married

We discuss the critical conversations everyone should have before getting married. We dive into the importance of aligning on life goals, values, and faith, and why so many couples overlook these foundational discussions. Jonathan explains how understanding your partner's values and what you both want out of life is essential for building a lasting and secure partnership. We also touch on the fear that can arise when committing to someone fully and how it can impact a relationship, leading to misunderstandings and insecurity.

We also explore attachment styles and why it's better to move away from labels like "anxious" or "avoidant." Instead of focusing on buzzwords, Jonathan emphasizes the importance of engaging in deep and vulnerable conversations to express emotional needs and address fears. We discuss how partners should openly communicate about their insecurities, such as fears of abandonment or rejection, and how this kind of openness can strengthen the bond between two people. Effective communication is key to creating a secure and trusting relationship.

Finally, Jonathan shares a personal story about his daughter and how he responds to her requests, showing that fulfilling a partner's emotional needs is an ongoing process. We discuss how both partners need to be committed to helping each other get what they want and how this builds a culture of mutual support in a relationship. If you're thinking about getting married or are already in a committed partnership, this conversation will give you the tools you need to navigate the tough topics and build a healthy, lasting relationship.

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