If You’re Not Willing to Be Hated, You’ll Never Be Truly Loved

Ever feel like you’re constantly putting on a mask just to fit in?
Like you’re saying things you don’t mean, agreeing to things that don’t sit right, all to avoid conflict or rejection?

The TRUTH is...... if you’re trying to please everyone, you’re setting yourself up for shallow connections – not real, deep relationships.

Think about it: when you’re truly yourself, some people may not like you, and that’s okay. In fact, that’s what keeps your relationships real.

Being your authentic self may mean that some people walk away, but it also means that the people who do stay actually love you for who you are.

It’s exhausting to live life as a performance. Every day becomes a script, a scene where you’re constantly worrying, “Will they like the real me?” Imagine waking up each morning knowing that every connection in your life is built on truth, on being genuine – not on playing a part.

If you’re tired of shallow relationships, of pretending to be someone you’re not, then maybe it’s time to let go of the fear of being disliked.

Being authentic from the beginning solves all of these issues, even if some people don't resonate with you it's okay. As you are not meant to get along with every single person you meet.

And again, "If you are not willing to be hated, you'll never be truly loved"