Feminism.. real or put in place deliberately to destroy the family structure and men

feminism was very active when l was a teenager and young woman... but I could never see how burning my small bra was going to get me a bigger pay packet... or improve my relationships with boys, men, or my husband, when the time came..
l am a independent person, strong, and head strong at times... but, feminism, a very long time ago, got equal pay for the same work... so what has it done since?? told woman they can abort a baby, and the father has no input... that children need to cared for by somebody else.. because the woman, not that they can define that word anymore.. but your mother is a woman, just incase you needed clarification.. the woman is superior then a man.. doesn't need him to open doors, give up his seat, or be the bread winner, protector, or father..
well l call bs to it all.. children, your offsprings that you carry for 9 months, need you.. its a 24 hour a day job... and if you can't handle that.. close your legs, take the pill, or get your tunes tied... but don't blame you murdering babies, your right, or not your responsibility..