Ben Shapiro & Chris Williamson | Set Higher Expectations for Yourself in Relationships

so I've said a few of these things before but one of them is: try to have more expectations of yourself than you have of your spouse so the very easiest thing to do is: something doesn't get done you're like: oh my god i can't believe my spouse didn't do that and you might be right maybe it's annoying that your spouse didn't do that you know pick up after the thing anyway right it's not about having equal roles in the relationship or everything is equal it's about like: are you both doing that are you both efforting it.