Stop Trying to Get Everyone to LIKE YOU (This kills your CHARISMA)

When you are trying to get other people to like you, you are putting out this desperate energy that comes off as needy. And this is not really attractive.

The only way to get people to like you is to be authentic and genuine.
BUT.....WHat if people don't like me when I'm being genuine????

That's completely okay as you can never get everybody to love you for who you are.

There will be people who love you and people who hate you and that's absolutely okay.

As if you are trying to get everybody to like you by applying some techniques and pick-up artistry strategies, you'll get a surface-level connection.

Your entire relationship will be built upon lies, manipulative strategies, and techniques, which do not end well. Trust me, I've been there.

I stumbled upon this world of pickup artistry where people relied on scripts and techniques to connect with other people. This felt way off and wasn't natural.

The key to building genuine connections is to be authentic and connect on a deeper level. So when you are using techniques, it just defeats the whole purpose of connecting on a deeper level.

And moreover, if you are trying your best to stay in the middle and have no haters......

You can achieve that, but you'll end up with no one loving you for who you are.

It's like when you want someone to love you for who you are, you must also be willing to be hated for who you are.

And that's absolutely okay, this is part of life. Not everybody is going to resonate with you and that's absolutely fine.

So being authentic and genuine is key as in the end we are all human beings, with human emotions.

When you are authentic, you show the real you to the people around you. Even if they don't like you you build trust and generate respect as you are not lying or trying to fit in, rather you are being honest.

And this is more charismatic than trying to follow techniques and strategies to come off as charismatic.