Empowering Kids: The art of Negotiation and Resilience

Empowering Kids: The Art of Negotiation and Resilience

Dr. Shefali: Many college freshmen struggle when they first leave home because they've been overly restricted. They haven't developed their inner guidance system. We should trust our children and teach them to trust themselves. Mistakes are inevitable and not catastrophic - they're how children build resilience.

Mother: So. we should have a family discussion about this?

Dr. Shefali: Yes, absolutely. Have ongoing, dynamic conversations. Help your child explore what truly matters to them.

Mother: Wait, did you say we should negotiate with our children? Many parents, including myself, find that idea challenging.

Dr. Shefali: I understand that reaction. But negotiation helps children develop self-awareness. We want them to practice using their voice, speaking up, and expressing themselves - even if it seems nonsensical at first. These are crucial skills they'll need in the workplace to set boundaries with bosses and colleagues. How will they learn to advocate for themselves if they don't practice with us?

Many parents believe tough love is the best way to show care. However, harsh discipline and punishment are often more about control than genuine love and support.

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