Twin Flames: Facing the Rejection Is the Ultimate Liberation Stephanie Kraft

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Hi, everybody Stephanie craft here This video is for twin flames and it's about facing the rejection of your own twin flame and how that is and can be the most liberating thing so so many twin flames stay in a pattern of Not wanting to accept that their twin flame has rejected them They stay in some land like a fantasy land that their twin is coming back that they're going to be together with their twin Even so they're in a state of denial and even when their twin is showing no signs of contact No signs that they're coming closer to them. No signs that The twin actually wants to be together. And so a lot of people who are twin flames watch YouTube videos and there are a lot of people on YouTube who are Perpetuating some myth that their twin is coming between claims are coming together. Your twin is, you know Doing the work on themselves so that there can be Union I obviously don't make videos like that But the problem is that people get caught up in that idea and it's kind of like a brainwashing and even set aside YouTube videos Let's pretend they don't exist. It just happens naturally for a lot of twin flames where they can't even fathom That that their twin would reject reject them they can't contemplate it it would be the most painful thing to Face head-on any even inkling that their twin has truly and honestly rejected them They people that can make up all kinds of stories that Their twin is just afraid that they felt this intensity and they felt this love and they ran away and so much of that is True a lot of the time but that's not helping you move on with your life any kind of story You're telling yourself that is a coping mechanism a way for you to handle it Rejection only prolongs your suffering and living in a state of hope that is what my one of my friends calls pathological hope and so that type of hope is like Keeping you clinging to an idea or fantasy, but not reality and so The hardest thing we can do as twin flame is actually face the legitimate projection that our twin literally hot It has no intention of being with us and so a lot of my clients are stuck in that or a lot of my viewers are as well where they're not ready to let go of this idea of connecting with their twin and Being with their twin and so they're living their life sort of pacing themselves on You know, whether it's communication or seeing each other or they're kind of orchestrating their life around the possibility of this You know inevitable union or just any type of reconnecting so the reason that people are not able to face that rejection head-on is because It's triggering the deepest most painful wound that they have or wounds that they have in their childhood and maybe even deeper than that Maybe well, maybe past life Fears of abandonment and rejection from their twin where it has happened in other lifetimes but also a deeper spiritual fear of abandonment and rejection that they Will be that they are ultimately not wanted not seen not validated And so this can be a deep spiritual pain from the feeling that God has abandoned them or that they've been left here alone And that they're not loved and watched over Sorry, I don't know why my throat just got dry and I don't have water sitting here. So I'm just gonna probably get through the video This is probably happening to me because um, it's also my personal story, which I can share with you I'm just gonna grab a cup of water and I don't edit my video. So we're just gonna keep it in there Okay, sorry for that interruption. I got my water and that helps. So thanks for hanging in there with me Okay, so a lot of the times if we're not willing to face that our twin flame doesn't actually want to be with us We go into deep denial like I said before creating stories around it no matter what the stories are just these stories are ways to cope and deal until we're finally ready to face the reality and Yeah, I guess it's just gonna be easier to explain this whole thing if I share Which is very personal, but why not right? We're all going through this if you're watching this video and perhaps it can help you to hear how it I helped myself through this Process so I ended up Writing to my twin flame and expressed my feelings and he rejected me Um, although he had expressed his love for me already and it didn't he still rejected me So it's not that I wanted my twin flame, even though it I expressed it in that way a little bit to him It was that I'm being totally honest here. I just didn't want him to reject me I wanted him to want me and then I would feel okay, even though I didn't actually want him But it kind of felt like I wanted him it and it in a way, you know I it really wasn't that at all. It was I knew I didn't want him It was that I just wanted him to want me and accept me and love me and validate me in The ways I guess that I maybe felt that I needed so when he wrote back and rejected me Um, you know the kindest way he could um, I took it. I took it as real I accepted it 100% finally after five years of thinking that he had these feelings for me, which she kind of expressed But it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter in the end. He rejected me. So I took that as being real I didn't go into denial. I didn't make up excuses I literally faced it head-on in full reality, but I guess for the first time to that capacity and I highly recommend it So what happened to me was that that night so during the day? It was like this utter shock of like, you know The rug is pulled out from under you and you just you just like torn like ripped empty like you're just devastated in a way But you're not you're not really you're coming to terms with it You're accepting it, but you're not really feeling the full effect of it yet And so that night I had to go somewhere And I was driving and I literally had my breakdown that when I was trying to go somewhere and I had to pull over So I was crying and so I just it's such a vulnerable sharing that I'm sharing with you recording this video But I guess it's okay to share at this level of authenticity and vulnerability because it's just me and my truth So I was crying so hard that he rejected me and I was saying these words came out of my I pulled over So I was safe and I was just crying his dark night It was really a big breakdown and the words were coming out of my mouth, um, I feel like such a stupid little girl I feel like such a stupid little girl these words those words came out of my mouth like that like repeatedly and I like I Became observer of myself. I'm like, where are these words coming from? I've never said this in my life and why am I why is this feeling coming out of me? and I and then immediately it brought me to the rejection of my parents that That it's like this information download came in a packet in an instant of realization that my twin actually stood as a symbol For the at like a stand-in a role for the actual rejection of my parents My father was emotionally unavailable and I'm available in every way he lived He was married to my mom and y'all live together in the house, but he was absent He was a workaholic that was all resolved later on near his death at the time of his death We can't close and healed everything but well, he died when I was 29. So in the year 2048 now, so So but for those 29 years, um, I had felt the sense of rejection now My father was close to me I was a really really look at like a top baby and toddler and young Um, but it was about five or six when he and I sensed I was like six years old From him and anyway that lasted until he died until the very end and so so there was that there was the absence of a Father in even though the presence of the father was in the house I didn't actually have a father in the fatherly ways that you meet a father. He did nothing for me He didn't talk to me. He never had me never said. I love you. No affection. Not really He did a few things. I remember like Which is lovely and wonderful, but you know, there are these little snippets of memories But it's very young age and it all stopped. Anyways, that's the case with my dad and then with my mom Well, she's a narcissist and she was abusive. So She was way more devastating to me than my dad. My dad didn't hurt me My mom ripped my soul out and crushed it and killed it and destroyed it, but I'm healed from that as well But so there that was my childhood There's so much more to it but the brief synopsis is that there was a sense of rejection complete and utter absolute rejection from both of my parents and my twin came in as a stand-in to play a role to replicate and For me to relive all those feelings of please love me. Please love me. Please see me for who I am Please hear me please validate me and actually my twin did had done that has done that for me completely sees me validates me Expresses his love all that was there but not the ultimate coming to me, you know to be with me And that was that's the ultimate right you want somebody who's going to say you know what? I see you for who you are and I know you're the one for me and the reason it takes the twin to get it to this deep level of pain and Poignancy is that it's you in another body. It's literally your soul coming into another body to do this favor for you Okay So this is a favor for you to come and play that role to trigger all those deepest wounds so that you can once And for all heal them they are not meant in a lot of these cases I don't speak globally about twin flames and I would beware of anybody who talks like that all twin flames this no twin flames that Twins are coming together. All twins are meant to come together twins. There are only two they're only romantic Don't I don't do that and I would really ask you to try to steer clear of that because it messes you up because it's Not those are not true. You want to get to the truth of the matter in your case, so So in these cases it will take your twin flames come in and play that role for you To hit at those most deeply painful places in you the rejection the abandonment the fear of loss the fear of not being loved or chosen, you know, I had that fear of not being chosen because Of many stories in my childhood and with my parents of that theme and so here he was Protecting me, which was the most beautiful gift that I could have received from him. So I'm driving along my breakdown begins I'm in no shape to continue driving. You know, it's not a very residential Street I needed to let myself feel and I knew I needed to let these feelings process because they weren't easily accessible I was in denial. Um, I worked my hardest to not be in denial for all those years to try to fully accept He doesn't want me. He doesn't want me. He's not coming to me in that way But because we are gonna be facing our deepest pains and wounds. We can't always get there by ourselves We can't always get to those tangible feelings of reality Which is what I was talking about the beginning is why we divert into fantasy thinking into denial into creating stories But when this breakdown started in the car and I pulled over I was like, okay Let yourself feel the truth of all of this because you're I I love healing. I love healing everything So I was like good. This is coming all the way up to the surface I'm gonna feel it all the way to its core and then those words started coming out I feel like such a stupid little girl and obviously He wasn't treating me that way. I wasn't putting myself in the position of being a little girl. I wasn't a little girl So where were these words coming from? That's like I said, I became the observer of it and in that moment it hit me I'm grieving the loss of my parents the loss of my parents love that I needed and wanted the loss of their acceptance of Me and the full embracing of me as their child I had to grieve that loss in that instant But at the same time something happened to me This these realizations were coming so quickly and the crying was clearing out and so I realized my twin was just a phantom Symbol for representing those pains and wounds and as soon as I got to the core of it he disappeared it all shattered into an illusion of it really wasn't about that with him and it was and his rejection of me is not real and I got to then I got to the layer of the rejection of my parents is not even real and then I got to The layer of where I'm fully supported and loved by God and that my soul Loves me and God loves me and I'm putting this into words, but the way that it happened was full-on Soul level knowing it was energetic. It was spiritual. It was deep. It was profound It was a healing that happened like a divine intervention that showed me the truth of all this the truth that my twin flame was a symbol For this healing and representation of this rejection that his rejection wasn't even real I don't Moroccan myself the reason I'm repeating these things in this video is because I know how hard it is to take these things in and And we need the repetition because we're trying to break ourselves out of any type of brainwashing that we've done to ourselves or that by Watching other videos has perpetuated it or stories we've told ourselves or denial and that's why because I'm repeating that the themes here because it does take listening to this type of thing over and over because we're working on shattering these illusions and getting to the deepest level of Our healing and where the pain really lies. What is the real pain here? It's not your twin. Your twin is a representation of it coming and showing up in your life to show it to you That's why so many of you are not willing to face it because you think it's them. It's my twin I need my twin. I need my twin to be feel better feel resolved But it's not true. Your twin will continue to reject you because they're showing you where your wounds are So if you can somehow face the rejection as a reality, it will lead to the ultimate freedom. So what happened in my Breakdown one these it was like the knowings were coming in nanoseconds, right? So it's like oh my god It's not about him and I didn't even want him. So it's really easy for me to release him but what I needed to release was That or except was that he doesn't want me He doesn't want me and so it's like I could accept it in that moment fully then my parents they don't need to They never needed to Be there for me because I'm there for me. So because God is there for me So the next layer that came in was none of this rejection is real The only rejection is the rejection of yourself by continuing to want your twin to solve all this for you It's an unconscious desire on your part. You want your twin because then you'll feel better They want you want that it's an unconscious desire because the feeling better is the resolving of your inner pain, right wounds. So The way that you're rejecting rejecting yourself through that desire of your twin. You are rejecting yourself the whole time You're rejecting that you give yourself validation You give yourself self-worth and love and it comes directly from you your soul and I of which you are all apart You cannot be rejected by an outsider. The only rejection is of yourself to yourself. Is that clear? I hope I'm making this clear because that was the next layer of healing that came in I'm telling this was happening within seconds within a second. It all came to me and I knew there no rejection is real You are not rejected. It's all a facade It's an illusion and when you come to that knowing you get to the ultimate truth of Being one with God being loved by God being supported in that way and that you are that and that you are that's your soul Connection to yourself to God and that can never be broken and that's all you have and that's everything and that's what I felt That's everything everything else. Here's an illusion my parents my twin So then what happened when this healing event was happening to my breakdown was this? Okay, I'll try to explain it It was like there was a membrane around me That held me within that illusion of wanting my twin to want me. No, I didn't really want him I still want him to want me because that was where my pain was the rejection and abandonment Cuz I knew he wasn't the right person for me from day one day one He was I knew right not no denial and I had no denial He's the worst man actually the words that ran through my head the first day That was he's the worst man on the planet for me and I was never in denial about that But he was triggering my wound of fear of rejection and abandonment loss. So I wanted him to want me So that's what my twin story was about. So Okay, so I'm in the car I get the reality of the situation and I was in a membrane a bubble During my time my five years of knowing him which all the stuff that I just talked about was playing out the fear of the rejection the denial of the rejection Because he had repeatedly rejected me anyway, but this time it hit because I was willing to face it head-on No denial full acceptance and I shot through this memory and I shot through into space Into the real reality of the universe and God's love and real love and and I'm explaining what happened You know, I was still sitting in my car You know how you have like a vision an inner vision or knowing of what's happening to you as energetically emotionally and at a soul Level. Well, this is what happened I shot out of that membrane and I was on the other side in ecstasy other side of the membrane. I was free It was my ultimate liberation I was suddenly freer than I had ever felt in my entire life I was ecstatic Excited full of joy it's hard to put into words this expansion of ecstatic joy and bliss and freedom and liberation that I felt but that's what happened and I Wrote to him the next I think was next morning that that this had happened that I have never felt freer and happier in my Entire life and I don't think I understood why but this is the explanation and I'm sharing it publicly with you because I'm telling you when you're willing it's not an easy thing I mean part of me just wanted to die for a moment when I was facing this When I was experiencing this breakdown initially and I had to pull over I was crying of course the pain was so great that I didn't know what to do about it or do with myself and then this feelings began to unravel everything that I've just shared with you and so When you're willing to face it head-on full acceptance and you're willing to face the real pain that you're preventing yourself and feeling by still watching your twin by still putting The attention on the twin as the twin is the solution the twin is the problem the twin is You know what I'm saying? Like constantly it's about when you stop doing that and you face the actual real pain and what it's really about and I know it's Not easy to get to that. It's not easy to get to it which is why I said to myself you're gonna feel this because you know It's coming up to the surface and I knew I wanted to be free from this thing and it worked and I just it happened So that's why I titled it facing the rejection from your twin is your ultimate liberation It is your ultimate freedom If you really take to heart the words that I'm saying in this video and watch it again and again to really get it You may need some support from some kind of you know Somebody like me or therapist or counselor healer hypnotherapy energy healing if you aren't able to access the depths of it But you know logically consciously what it's all about for you Get some support to get to that so that you can really face this head-on so that you can also experience this liberation And this freedom this joy that is that has been everlasting So this all happened in April of 2019 and here we are in November of the same year and this freedom this joy has never Left me. I mean I have so much peace and there's zero desire for my twin zero There has never been an even for a nanosecond any desire for him to want me except me. Nothing it all went poof that night in the car when I was willing to face this and Broke through that membrane and shot through into the reality of who I am The reality is that you are an incarnation from your own soul. Your soul could never reject you. Therefore your twin really can't It's not real the rejection from your twin is not real. It's not real I don't want you to use that to keep yourself in the illusion of it in a denial of it But the ultimate rejection of you is not real. That's your soul coming in to do this favor for you. And so I Forget what I was saying But the reality that I was saying that the reality of you is your soul your connection to God and there's no rejection in That none it can never be and it is everlasting love and oneness. That's what it is. You are that's what you are Everlasting undying love and union and oneness with but all that is like pure true divine love and oneness Which is God or whatever you want to call it doesn't matter what you call it, right? All right. Well, that's the end of this video. You can find me on my website Stephanie craft calm I do twin flame healing sessions I have helped people through this process privately in my sessions and if you need any help in this process I'm talking about I am a healer and I am empathic and intuitive I can get to the root of things and help guide you Through them and clear them energetically and give you insight and help you on this journey. Okay much love to everybody many blessings Bye. Bye