Answering Children’s Questions about Divorce

Why are you getting a divorce?
Children often want to understand the reason behind the divorce. Explain simply, 'Mom and Dad have decided that we can be better parents and happier people if we live separately. This decision is not because of anything you did.
Where will I live?
Children need to know about their living arrangements. Tell them, 'You will spend weekdays with Mom and weekends with Dad,' or 'We will have two homes, and you will have your own room in each.
Will I still see both of you?
Reassure them, 'Yes, you will spend time with both of us. We will make sure you get to see each of us regularly.
Is it my fault?
It’s crucial to reassure your children that the divorce is not their fault. Say, 'No, this is not your fault at all. This is a decision between Mom and Dad, and we both love you very much.
Will you get back together?
Be honest but gentle: 'We have decided that living separately is best for our family. We will always work together to take care of you, but we will not be getting back together.
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