You are not lazy, unmotivated or stuck. After years of living your life in survival mode you are...

Originally uploaded: June 18th, 2023

Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/5A7YrrCHipQ

https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson

*I'm behind on uploading on Rumble, but I'm making strides.

Original Youtube Description:

Tired.

You are not lazy.
You are not unmotivated.
You are not stuck.

For a lot of us, we haven't gotten proper support that we deserve or need, compassion period.

I saw this happening in my life a lot. I decided to be successful, but without people. I changed the trajectory of my life. Support is great, but I no longer look for it in others anymore. Solitude isn't bad. It's being around people who pretend to be your friends, but are jealous of you and stab you in the back.

Some changes I made.

1. I'm a Hoosier fan. I love Indiana University! Loving the other place was a mistake! Yuck! Go Hoosiers!

2. I'm not into religion. So I find it quite hilarious that ANY church would recognize me as a Reverend. period. If they really knew how I felt about religion and church....

3. Being the only child I love my solitude and actually experience a lot of successes during my lone wolf solitude seasons! I also call it soul solo seasons. I embrace it. I felt like in different seasons in my life when I did reach out, or take baby steps? Family and friends wasn't sure how to help or wasn't there. Or I was made fun of or it ended up being a circus. (When my friends passed, the school at the time made me feel worst about it). I actually wrote about how to thrive as a loner since so many people been asking me about some of my successes. And when people passed away in my life throughout the years, I looked for support, just to realize the help I was looking for never existed (so I stopped looking for it and don't expect it). So honestly my solitude is my default and I enjoy it fully (probably too much haha). I literally have my funeral arrangements to reflect how much I enjoy my solitude. Because dead or alive, my solitude, and animals are better friends to me than people. I do have my friends, but like I said I prefer not relying on people. I've been let down enough times where I don't depend on people anymore. Trust and access denied.

4. If I'm successful, it's my fault. If I fail it's my fault. I set up my life so everything that I do is on me. After I did that, I became a success on Youtube, became a sponsored athlete, booked speeches for years into the future, and several other things I'm not saying yet.

5. I do notice an uptick of guys DMing me. If you are looking for friendship, great. But I'm not the one, the two or the third. My goodness, if y'all don't take the horse manure elsewhere. I appreciate the support and y'all watching my content, but that's where it starts and stops. There's women out there who really like that attention, but I'm not one of them.

Inspired by Juju O's video: https://youtu.be/oNSkF7sqhA4

I offer tips on how to bounce back when people do bad things to you. I've gotten really good at taking people's attacks and turning them into successes. Or how I've gotten my successes on my own. No one is coming to save you. https://medium.com/@aleshapeterson/how-to-thrive-as-a-loner-c1f358e2ce65?source=your_stories_page-------------------------------------

What it's like to be a Reverend? Who in the world would recognize me as a Reverend of a church? Lol, especially when I hate religion nowadays? I'm literally the last person on the planet these churches should give that title to, but teach is on. https://medium.com/@aleshapeterson/what-its-really-like-to-be-a-reverend-of-a-church-9959ffabb4ae?source=your_stories_page-------------------------------------