Episode 1904: Embracing the Ordinary: A Catholic Perspective on Spiritual Growth

Embracing the Ordinary: A Catholic Perspective on Spiritual Growth
What are the depths of Catholic spirituality and its relevance to our everyday lives. We delve into the wisdom of two revered figures: St. Gabriel Possenti and Ralph Martin, to understand the importance of embracing the ordinary in our spiritual journey.

St. Gabriel Possenti once said, "Our perfection does not consist of doing extraordinary things, but to do the ordinary well." This is the core of Catholic spirituality, which emphasizes the sanctity of everyday life. It invites us to find God in the mundane, to infuse our daily tasks with love and dedication, understanding that in these small acts lies the path to holiness.
Emphasis on Virtue and Holiness: In Catholic teaching, the ultimate goal of life is to grow in holiness and virtue, becoming more like Christ. This journey towards holiness is not primarily achieved through grandiose acts or extraordinary feats, but rather through the consistent practice of virtue in everyday life.

Sanctification in Ordinary Life: Catholicism teaches that sanctification—the process of becoming holy—is to be found in the midst of ordinary, everyday activities. It's in the simple tasks, interactions, and responsibilities of daily life that individuals have the opportunity to grow in virtue, deepen their relationship with God, and serve others.
Fulfilling One's Vocation: Each person is called to a specific vocation in life—whether it be marriage, religious life, single life, or priesthood. Fulfilling this vocation with love and dedication is seen as the path to sanctity. For example, a married person is called to love their spouse faithfully, raise their children with care, and fulfill their duties with diligence. By doing so, they cooperate with God's grace and grow in holiness.

Marian Example: The life of the Blessed Virgin Mary serves as a model for Catholics in understanding the importance of ordinary acts done with great love. Mary's life was characterized by humble service, obedience to God's will, and profound love for others. Despite not performing grand miracles or holding positions of authority, Mary's fiat (her "yes" to God) and her daily fidelity to God's plan exemplify the perfection found in ordinary living.

Humility and Simplicity: St. Gabriel Possenti's statement also reflects the importance of humility and simplicity in the spiritual life. Rather than seeking recognition or acclaim for extraordinary deeds, Catholics are called to embrace humility and find joy in serving others through the ordinary tasks of life.
Overall, in the traditional Catholic perspective, St. Gabriel Possenti's words remind believers that true greatness is found in faithfully living out one's vocation, embracing the ordinary with love and dedication, and continually striving to grow in holiness through acts of virtue and service in everyday life.
Now lets look at what Ralph Martin said but before we do, who is he?
Ralph Martin is a prominent figure in contemporary Catholicism, particularly known for his work in evangelization, renewal movements, and spiritual direction. Here's a brief biography:
Early Life and Education:
Ralph Martin was born in 1942 in New York City, United States. He grew up in a Catholic family and received his education from various institutions. He attended Princeton University, where he earned his undergraduate degree, and later pursued theological studies at the University of Notre Dame, obtaining a Master of Divinity degree.

Conversion and Spiritual Journey:
Martin's deepening involvement in the Catholic faith led him to experience a profound personal conversion. This conversion experience significantly influenced his vocation and ministry. He became deeply committed to living out his Catholic faith and sharing its richness with others.
Ministry and Leadership:
Ralph Martin is widely recognized for his leadership roles in various Catholic renewal movements. He played a significant role in the Catholic Charismatic Renewal, a movement within the Catholic Church that emphasizes the role of the Holy Spirit in the life of believers. Martin served as the president of Renewal Ministries, an organization dedicated to spreading the Catholic faith and fostering spiritual renewal. Through Renewal Ministries, he has been actively involved in evangelization efforts, retreats, conferences, and media outreach, both nationally and internationally.
Author and Speaker:
Martin is also an accomplished author and speaker, known for his insightful writings on topics such as spirituality, evangelization, and the Catholic faith. He has written several books, including "The Fulfillment of All Desire: A Guidebook for the Journey to God Based on the Wisdom of the Saints" and "The Urgency of the New Evangelization: Answering the Call." His works often draw from the rich tradition of Catholic spirituality and offer practical guidance for spiritual growth and renewal.
Academic Contributions:
In addition to his ministry and writing, Ralph Martin has made contributions to Catholic academia. He has served as a professor of theology and evangelization at Sacred Heart Major Seminary in Detroit, Michigan, where he has mentored and trained future leaders in the Church.
Legacy and Influence:
Ralph Martin's dedication to the Catholic faith and his commitment to spiritual renewal have had a significant impact on countless individuals and communities within the Church. Through his leadership, teaching, writing, and ministry, he continues to inspire and empower Catholics to deepen their relationship with God and actively live out their faith in the world.
Ralph Martin said:
“Little by little, we can make our daily life more and more prayerful, as we are able, over time, to incorporate those suggestions that work with our schedule and that we are ready for spiritually. There is a particular spiritual practice that Francis [de Sales] highly recommends that is possible for all of us: even on those ‘impossible’ days when we are perhaps unable to undertake our normal spiritual practices, we can stay rooted in prayer by constantly addressing brief prayers to the Lord. These can be acts of love, of adoration, of faith, of hope, of petition, or simply saying the name of Jesus—throughout the course of the day. Francis places a very high value on these simple utterances, traditionally called ejaculatory prayers or aspirations.”
Ralph Martin adds another layer to this understanding by highlighting the significance of integrating prayer into our daily routines. He suggests that even amidst the busyness of life, we can cultivate a prayerful attitude by offering brief prayers or aspirations to God throughout the day. These simple acts of love, adoration, faith, and petition serve to keep us connected to the divine, anchoring our souls in the midst of life's challenges.
So, what does this mean from a traditional Catholic perspective? It speaks to the concept of "the sacramentality of everyday life," a fundamental belief that God's grace permeates all aspects of our existence. From the moment we wake up to the time we lay our heads to rest, every moment, every action, can be infused with the presence of God.
This perspective challenges the notion that spirituality is confined to church buildings or specific times of prayer. Instead, it invites us to see our entire lives as a sacred journey, where every interaction, every task, becomes an opportunity to grow closer to God.
The Catholic tradition offers a rich tapestry of spiritual practices to support us on this journey. From the sacraments to the liturgy of the hours, from contemplative prayer to acts of charity, there are countless ways to nurture our relationship with God in the midst of our daily lives.
Ultimately, embracing the ordinary is about recognizing the divine presence in the midst of the mundane. It's about finding beauty, meaning, and purpose in the seemingly insignificant moments of our lives. And it's about allowing God to transform our hearts through the rhythm of everyday living.
As we conclude today's episode, let us reflect on these words from St. Francis de Sales, who reminds us that "the greatest honor we can give Almighty God is to live gladly because of the knowledge of his love." May we embrace the ordinary with joy and gratitude, knowing that in doing so, we honor and glorify our Creator.

Lets wrap this up with –Psalm 63:1-4
"O God, thou art my God, I seek thee, my soul thirsts for thee; my flesh faints for thee, as in a dry and weary land where no water is. So I have looked upon thee in the sanctuary, beholding thy power and glory. Because thy steadfast love is better than life, my lips will praise thee. So I will bless thee as long as I live; I will lift up my hands and call on thy name."

So go out there today with these thoughts and convert somebody.