How To Win Him Back After He Leaves You

How to Attract a Guy When He's Afraid of Commitment? What Tricks Can You Use to Get Him to Commit?

The process of seduction and the flirtation period are emotionally charged times. Discovering each other, the first dates, and the birth of initial feelings bring excitement and the desire to go further.

However, some guys pull back and become distant when the relationship gets serious. In this situation, there are three actions to take to understand men and know how to react when they don't want to commit.

The first thing to do when a guy becomes distant is to learn to say no. To avoid being at the mercy of the relationship and falling into emotional dependency, it's necessary to take control of your emotions.

Accepting everything from a guy sends the wrong signal. To fully commit to a relationship and not experience feelings of boredom, a guy needs to be challenged and feel the need to surprise his partner.

If he senses that a woman isn't at his beck and call, a guy will take action to win her over.

To push him to commit and consider a fulfilling couple life, the second trick is to learn to "punish" a guy. This means taking a step back when he's in control and no longer making the effort to invest because he feels confident.

The goal is to make him react by showing him that his personal life comes before him and that he'll have to fight to be a part of it.

The third technique to shift the power dynamic and get him to invest is to reconsider how you criticize his behavior.

In the heat of emotions, we tend to attack him directly, but this approach isn't effective and can even worsen the situation. Instead of attacking him, it's better to complain about the relationship to disrupt him and make him react.

By making him understand that this situation is no longer fulfilling, we make him realize that he'll have to fight to not lose everything.