How to Give Her Space Without Giving Up

This episode is titled how to give her space without giving up because so many of us struggle to know how to deal with those three little words...those 3 words that make your neck hairs stand up and your gut tighten into nauseous knots - "I need space!"

I've talked a lot in other episodes about this issue. Those videos talk about what to think about her request for space and how to know whether it's really a request for divorce.

This episode is about the PRESSURE she feels and the distinction between the BAD pressure you must stop and the GOOD pressure you must start.

Even if you wind up divorced, you must understand the difference and become a master of applying GOOD pressure - everywhere in your life.

Let me explain this in really simple terms.

BAD Pressure = Desperate, sad, nervous and needy pursuit of affirmation.

When it comes to a woman declaring her need for space...you can't analyze it or change it. When she says "I'm not feeling romantic love for you anymore"...you can't argue about it or negotiate it. So, don't even try. That's BAD pressure.

Even though she may not know exactly what the hell she means by this, it's her emotional truth. She didn't make a choice to feel like this...she just DOES. Don't ask her why. She doesn't know why. She won't know why tomorrow or, possibly, ever. Asking her who/what/where/why/when/how questions in order to collect data and solve the problem for her is BAD pressure.

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