How Adversity Shapes Men: Finding Strength in Difficult Situations

So many men say I want to be the man but they don't want to suffer they don't want to fight and I don't understand why because even if you look at a superhero movie they tell you Even in superhero movies they make it very clear Batman's parents die That's why he's Batman It's very hard to become a man and have a man who's respected and has stories and is capable when he only had a nice life and nice experiences It's usually the things that made you the best version of you or usually the worst things that happen to you All the bad things have to happen There's no way to get there without the bad things Where do you find the strength when you're in these difficult situations