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Borderline Needs and Using You - The Importance of an Accurate Framework of Understanding To Heal
Borderline Needs and Using You - The Importance of an Accurate Framework of Understanding To Heal
Borderlines can't meet their own emotional needs and they use you (person closest to them, partner etc.) to unconsciously seek identity through you in attempts to emotionally regulate. People with BPD, again, unconsciously, use a person closest (favorite person too) and experience you as the "object other parent representation of good or bad parent or alternatingly each. You are not seen and heard.
People with BPD are using you and all relationships to seek a reparation to their early arrested emotional development caused by adverse childhood experience and often a lack of attunement and bonding in infancy. They do not do this consciously.
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Borderlines as do codependents in their own way seek to repair early childhood wounds through "other".
BPD unmet needs
Understanding BPD is crucial for Ex's and Loved Ones own well-being
How you inaccurately frame your understanding of BPD can block your recovery
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