Codependent Ex of BPD Finding Others Boring?

Codependent Ex of BPD Finding Others Boring?
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Many people after a BPD relationship once No contact, in healing & recovery journey find that dating other people (non-borderlines) who are healthier and not anywhere near as intense as people with BPD are just too boring. Can you relate to this? Why do you think this is or has been how you feel?