You Can't Make People Change - Angry, Stubborn, Fearful Women, Men

Nicholl is a nonfiction author and inspirational speaker who focuses on personal development and spiritual growth. She is the founder of channel NM Enterprise 7 where she shares her insights and experiences to inspire and empower others.

In this episode, Nicholl discusses the topic of change and the challenges of trying to make people change. She shares a personal story about a man who experienced discrimination when he tried to help someone, highlighting the complexities of human behavior and the deep-rooted fears and biases that can influence our actions. Nicholl emphasizes the importance of understanding others' perspectives and experiences, and the need to let go of our own preconceived notions and judgments. She also explores the idea that some people are simply not willing to change, and that we must accept this reality and focus on what we can control in our own lives. Nicholl encourages listeners to examine their own attitudes and behaviors, and to seek personal growth and healing before trying to change others.

Key Takeaways:

- People are not always willing to change, and we must accept this reality.
- It is important to understand others' perspectives and experiences before passing judgment.
-Clinging to past hurts and fears can prevent us from seeing beyond our own biases.
-We must be willing to examine our own attitudes and behaviors and seek personal growth and healing.
- Trying to change others can be exhausting and fruitless, and it is often more productive to focus on what we can control in our own lives.

Nicholls' Quotes:

"We have to accept the fact that people are not going to change some aspects of who they are based on what they've experienced from others."

"When all of these different wars go on during seasonal periods, there are a lot of distractions. And the distractions invoke change."

Chapters:

0:00:00
Introduction to the topic of not being able to change people
0:00:39
Describing the frustration of trying to make someone change
0:01:14
Examples of people who refuse to change their behavior
0:02:01
Story of an African American man being judged by an Asian woman
0:03:14
The realization that people hold on to their own experiences and fears
0:04:32
Clutching of the purse
0:05:59
People's behavior is influenced by their past experiences
0:08:10
The importance of acknowledging and listening to others' pain
0:09:32
Examining our own behavior and what we are holding on to
0:12:15
Accepting that people won't change and focusing on what we can control
[0:15:20]
Discussion of studying and researching a situation before making judgments
[0:16:02]
Choosing to empathize with someone who is hurting
[0:17:25]
Addressing the kindergarten mindset and prejudice
[0:19:03]
The exclusion and discrimination faced by women
[0:20:17]
Allowing people to be who they are
[0:21:52]
Allocating energy and resources effectively
[0:23:09]
The cycle of exclusion and community separation
[0:24:32]
The futility of trying to change people's mindset
[0:26:13]
Creating a club for mature women who want to rebuild
[0:28:09]
Redirecting focus and pursuing personal growth and education
[0:30:49]
Need help for mental health before starting organizations
[0:31:20]
Need logic and reason, not anger and negativity
[0:32:02]
Need to know how to communicate with different workers
[0:33:21
Some organizations are not focused on their mission
[0:33:54]
Need to educate and support instead of criticizing
[0:34:59]
Some people refuse to change

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