What traits help a mentee to grow? Answer by Lighthouse International Chairman Paul Stephen Waugh

Lighthouse International Chairman Paul Waugh explains the fundamentals of what it takes for a human being to truly grow and develop. SUBSCRIBE FOR 20 HOURS OF NEW MATERIAL NEXT WEEK ON LIVING AN OPTIMAL LIFE!

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Transcript:
When I started changing to really being committed to reality, even if I was going to feel small and stupid for a while, to learn how to laugh at myself, because it is silly!

You know you can walk around after you have watched a cowboy movie for 10 minutes thinking you are a cowboy. But the reality is you are just whoever you are, you go to work, go home, you are not a cowboy and you are not the hero. When you go and watch a movie you walk out of there with an inflated idea, that you may feel a bit like the cowboy in the movie or ’the hero that saved the day!’

You know, you walk out with the theme tune blaring in your ears. As you walk out you just feel this thing...you know?!

Well in life we are the same, we haven’t really paid the price to actually get to where we want to be. We haven’t been willing to be real with ourselves and actually get to hear the truth. So we are not ever working with reality.

I would say: Courage, is important on a secondary level, and I would say the ability to face the truth through that courage is the second thing on the secondary level.
On a primary level, as far as that is concerned, I would say that through a heightened conscience awareness you won’t have to have to feel small. Because you will flag it up yourself.
And the way we work here, is to help you flag that up yourself. So that you are saying it, not us. We are not necessarily telling you where you are and where you are not.
But through helping you with your own self awareness, you will find that. And that is a big part of this self-coaching thing.

As Paul outlines in the 10 steps of effectiveness, the first step is:
Be Real –Have a solid and conscious take on reality (not what you just think is reality, but to truly be aware of what is real and what is not)

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