When YOU Discard the Narcissist FIRST

Being discarded: injury or mortification?

Perceived as rejecting, frustrating (real) mother: retraumatization, decompensation, acting out, dissociation

Separation insecurity: restoring object constancy owing to introject dissonance (stalking and hoovering)

Reframing: internal (grandiose) or external (persecutory)

Grief stages: mourning the shared fantasy

Substitution (replace): isomorphic or dissimilar

Completion of disrupted shared fantasy (repetition compulsion)

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