Exploring the Human Experience and Embracing the Primal Self w/ Kraye Grymont

In this episode, the guest discusses their unconventional approach to personal development and self-discovery. They explain how their dojo helps individuals explore their primal characters and challenge their beliefs and habits. The guest emphasizes the importance of owning and embracing the dark side of oneself and the need to let go of external authority figures. They also touch on the role of technology in our lives and the impact it can have on our well-being. Overall, the guest encourages listeners to question societal norms and find their own path to happiness and fulfillment.

Key Takeaways:

Embrace your primal character and challenge your beliefs and habits.
Let go of external authority figures and define your own reality.
Own and embrace your dark side as part of your journey to self-discovery.
Be mindful of the impact of technology on your well-being and find a healthy balance.

Quotes:

"If you can't get past my persona and listen to what's actually being said, then I don't want to play with you."
"The fundamental issue with humanity is that we're stuck in believing that the 'I' is real."
"The first step to becoming more free is owning your dark side."

00:00:00: Introduction to the podcast and discussion about the dojo
00:01:24: The dojo opens people up by triggering them and not following through
00:02:49: Kraye started the dojo after quitting counseling
00:04:03 The dojo helps people identify their primal character
00:05:02: Having a visceral reaction to a supervisor's comment
00:06:22: People get stuck in the white belt level of the dojo
00:07:51: The deeper hidden stuff prevents people from accessing what they want
00:08:42: Most people don't want to put in the work required by the dojo
00:09:24: How Kraye started coaching to find a common language with his wife
00:10:38: Playing with people who want to be adults
00:11:11: People get stuck in their habits and believe their thoughts are special
00:12:04: Delayed gratification and self-identification
00:13:25: The dojo has different levels of decision-making and self-identification
00:16:04: Owning the dark side and dancing with it
00:17:48: The freedom to check out
00:19:37: Delayed gratification as an important value
00:20:27: Distancing oneself from technology as a discipline
00:22:47: Letting Darwin do its thing
00:23:51: The fundamental issue is believing the "I" is real
00:25:47: Silence and struggles with small talk
00:27:23: To be with people who can listen
00:28:40: In owning the lowest self and expressing it
00:30:27: Letting people choose their own path
00:31:54: The importance of owning the dark side
00:33:38: The need for a witness in inner work
00:35:04: Rejecting external authority figures
00:36:37: Not saving people who don't want to be saved
00:39:22: The issue is being stuck in the "I"
00:40:48: The importance of owning the dark side
00:43:38: The need for a witness in inner work
00:45:08: Finding different carriers for different audiences

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