#narcissism in #mothers -&- (#fatherless homes)@JordanBPeterson #MakeBelieveKrapSanFrancisco DTdjø

*Many people are a little narcissistic, especially addicts like Us! -some more than others & some are a truly diagnosable #narcissist, #Narcissistic Personality : a disconnect between emotion & action. More specifically, folks with NPD are more prone to sufficiently ‘mirror’ people into liking them (‘mirroring’ is an act of imitating the behaviors one believes the other to find desirable in themselves), causing them to unknowingly ‘fall in love with themself.) Those with NPD have trouble identifying their own role in things, seeing how their behavior emotionally effects those around them, tracing real-life ‘effects’ back to any particular ‘causes’. Often compartmentalize &/or use some aspect, some ‘facet in fact’, to manipulate the creation of an ongoing false narrative. (Sprinkle it with truth so it’ll go down as such.)
Her conduct since conception has put Our son in jeopardy. Facts. This conduct, like mine before Us, is not healthy for the little one! Unfortunately I didn’t exercise much of a ‘voice’ in the relationship because, up until then, I was just ‘step-dad’, & a relatively newer one at that. Usually creating tension was best avoided, *communication was Our #1 problem & ultimately the reason I moved myself out in Nov.2020. Before that, Living at her apartment once Our son was born, I had to pick & choose where to put down the proverbial foot. Now, in hindsight, I see I made the biggest deal of her THC & #Nicotine usage while #pregnant & then while nursing our baby boy. (Bringing this up at the doctors office caused such an ‘argument’ afterwards, I was met with the silent treatment for 5 whole consecutive days.) Eventually I just bought air purifier’s for all over the house & she didn’t have to cease vaping indoors.)

Since my absence, a lot has transpired, by the grace of ‘God’ - I celebrated 3 years in #Recovery from drugs & alcohol on March 17th of this year. Though it hasn’t all been great. Also suffered a psychological breakdown In ‘21, days after Our son was taken out of our life; ultimately diagnosed with schizo-disorder & have since changed Our way of being! (Not just geographically!) 😏 I am stable once again & working towards a vision for life. Nermak Muzik (Bringing it back ‘round to Our son.) His entire situation couldn’t have improved as we’d hoped - based on his moms behavior alone - providing it’s a toxic environment. From discovering Muzik has premature asthma …. To the execution of legalities that unjustifiably prohibit her own son from having a relationship with his loving, biological father - believing it to be a means of ‘getting back at me’. Maybe for any # of the actual, justifiable resentments she’s harbored.
But to then go on & Block the entire paternal side Nermak of the sons family -why? (Spite?) -after they paid to fly them both out to visit Hawaii, (+ of course simultaneously paying for her other kids to go to her family’s place in Cali so she’d be ‘available’ to take Muzik to finally meet his ‘Gramps’, my dad. Muzik is his first grandson & he’ll be 76 next month, (same month Our boy turns 3!)
His mothers blocked them to such an extent they can’t even get pics or updates of their only grandchild?🎵Muzik’s the newest addition to the Ohana in 30 years.
Now, with baby # 5 -&- dad # 4 - (& within months of announcement), announcing to her thousands of followers that, “Our son is “Autistic”….” .. I mean, ok. That’s one thing if it’s true -But she’s simultaneously posting that it’s “traumatic” due to “memories” of (Me, ‘DaamnKam’ harassing & “abusing” her about, “the possibility of this happening…” etc. And at 18 months old - These claims apparently made prior to any ‘doctors-opinion’, were posted to social media at least thrice (thus far), the latest one quotes, “people ask why I don’t talk more about Muzik being on the spectrum… …because I’m an #abusesurvivor & ‘that particular situation is’ #traumatic)
Our primary concern will continue to be the well being of Our daughter, & only son; We are honestly scared for Muzik Orion! Having lived in ‘her household’ for years, witnessing not just the disfunction-but the danger. -DaamnKam
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(Your dad LOVES you Muzik!!!)