The Expectation Trap vs Cycle For Success

Setting expectations can really help because this leads us to raise our standards and reach our goals! But these can also sometimes go the wrong way and bring disappointment. In this video, I'm going to teach you The Expectation Trap vs The Cycle For Success so you can learn how to set these expectations wisely!

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Nicholeen Peck
Teaching Self-Government

Key Moments in this Episode
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00:00 Intro & Summary
01:17 What My Husband's Perfect Day Looks Like
03:11 The Reality Of My Husband's Perfect Day
04:19 What My Perfect Day Looks Like
05:54 The Importance Of Expectations
07:56 What The Expectation Trap Looks Like
08:21 The Power Of Emotions
09:19 Expectation As The Root Of Our Security
10:30 How Changing My Expectations Changed My Life
12:44 The Expectation Trap: Setting Expectations
13:07 The Expectation Trap: Preparing
13:27 The Expectation Trap: Taking Action
13:42 The Expectation Trap: Going Off Course
14:31 The Expectation Trap: Feeling Discouraged/Frustrated
15:23 The Importance Of Defining Family Roles
17:10 How To Know If You Have Family Roles Problems
18:43 The Expectation Trap: Getting Grumpy
19:13 The Expectation Trap: Getting Impatient
20:38 The Expectation Trap: Getting Angry
21:52 The Expectation Trap: Feeling Guilt
23:48 The Expectation Trap: Reinventing Yourself
25:23 Where The Expectation Trap Can Happen
27:09 Expectation As The Picture Of A Possibility
27:57 What It Means To Be An Idealist
28:47 The Cycle For Success: Pre-Teaching
30:02 The Cycle For Success: Taking Action
30:11 4 Basic Skills You Need To Know
32:45 Cue Cards You Can Use For Teaching Self-Government
34:00 The Cycle For Success: Going Off Course
35:04 The Cycle For Success: Connecting By Correction
38:35 The Cycle For Success: Remembering The Feeling
39:19 The Cycle For Success: Acting Deliberately
39:53 The Cycle For Success: Positive Feedback
41:30 The Cycle For Success: Repeat
43:26 The Power Of Expectations

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About Nicholeen Peck
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Despite your best efforts at raising children, is your family dysfunctional? Do your children set the rules and have control of your home instead of you? Are you looking for parenting skills that will help you create a united, happy family?

Then meet Nicholeen Peck, one of the world’s most effective parenting experts. Whether you want to fix child behavioral issues, create more unity in the home, or simply strengthen your family relationships, her proven system — Teaching Self-Government — can help you turn chaos into calm.

"People are starving for help to save their families," says Nicholeen.

Since 1999, her seminars, workshops, one-on-one training sessions, parenting videos and books have helped thousands of families worldwide regain peace, be happy and maintain unity in their home. The secret? Learning how to use effective family systems based on parenting that’s deliberate and pro-active (instead of reactive). It all starts with the principles of self-government. If you’re a family of faith, you’ll especially love how your faith and values can be woven into her parenting system.

In 2009, Nicholeen and her husband starred in the BBC reality TV show, “The World’s Strictest Parents” (watch here: http://bit.do/StrictestParents). She became an overnight sensation by turning around two out-of-control teenagers from England after just one week — without shouting, threats or manipulation. Her amazing success comes from the positive parenting techniques of using calmness, effective communication and principles of self-government.

Nicholeen Peck’s Accomplishments
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* Author of “Parenting: A House United,” “Popular Parenting Methods: Are They Really Working?,” “Roles: The Secret to Family, Business, and Social Success” and many other books and magazine articles.
* President of The Worldwide Organization for Women (WOW).
* Nicholeen regularly speaks at the United Nations and other congresses around the world as an advocate for strengthening families and motherhood.
* In 2009 her family was featured on the BBC reality show, “The World’s Strictest Parents.
* Trained as a foster parent for Utah Youth Village.
* Has parented many troubled foster children.
* Successfully raised (and raising) four children of her own.

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