I Don't Want to be a "Strong Nurse" Anymore

Some nurses will understand when I say, I don't want to be a "strong nurse" anymore, translation, I've overloaded you but you got this.... why are we in a system that thinks this is encouraging? Why are we in a system that we don't support or use ourselves? Where is the breakdown happening? Why is it now, well this is not as bad as the last place versus this is a good place to work?