#DaamnKam (on) #AuntieKaren #spiritualsickness, barrage of hurtful accusations, & #baseless insults.

Our moms older sister just threw in Our face that she’s a homeowner🤔 🤷‍♂️- the same week Our mom & dad helped Our little family to nøt continue being ‘renters’, (Grateful to the Adams family for helping Us build equity & security for the kiddos!) good for you & your 3 houses Laura 👏 We’d be homeowner’s already too if We inherited over half ‘a million dollars from daddy…
And how dare you act like you comprehend the pre-ordained set of struggles that We’ve endured to gratefully make it to 31 y/o during this trip on earth… As though you understand addiction because you were addicted to one particular substance at one particular time in your life… (Admittedly, now We’re wondering whether she *still claims a personal grasp on this affliction’s consequences) 🤔 A truthful diagnosis of oneself with the disease of addiction is not a prognosis to balk at.) …she still drinks, & occasionally too. Alcoholics can’t. Thank Our God the desire continues to be lifted! 🙏🏼 Even with the assumption she did diagnose herself; what has emboldened her harsh critique on a fellow’s disease & Recovery(?) What enables her thinking Its okay to verbally abuse her nephew(?) Hurling insults & accusations mascarading as concern & clever input … … … ° (a ‘#Sponge’?) 🤭
Which on its face value, is intended to appear less accusatorial than say, “#Leech”… (Ohh how ‘sinister’!!!) When in reality, it became sinister, a ‘perceived-attack’, the moment she then referred to herself as, (a) “Solvent”. Prompting Us to begin a phone recording before re-opening the door.
When it became clear she wasn’t going to cease with the barrage -We began walking away. Only returning when she laid into her whole, ‘Sponge-speech-speal’… (Again, in the heat of the moment her relentless “Sponge” repetition failed to impact Us as it now does.) Although, it was at that point We finally said, “Maybe if you would have called before coming over this wouldn’t have happened(?) …
Her prompt reply
“…I did call, (Pause)…actually.. I don’t have to talk to you…” -We internally met this statement with immediate discredit, factoring in that she had already asked Us if either parents were Home. (Fore, unless she called them, they didn’t answer & then she proceeded to drive over anyway…) An Instantaneous lie isn’t on par with a prefabricated one, sure, but you get it.
Now, contrary to standards set during prior engagements… (We were the ones cussing at her on Our birthday 😬🥳), We did keep Our calm. Something One should always do, yes, still deserving of a self-congratulatory shoutout such as this. But, We’d be a fool to believe it not in part due to the fact that We knew the ‘DaamnCam’ was rolling)
Yes, it’s true… ‘DaamnKam’ has struggled with anger (diagnosed IED), amongst other ailments (& diagnosis’s). Contrary to Our son’s mom’s belief’s AND despite labeling Ourself #DaamnKam!… #NPD is not amongst them!) ‘Narcissistic tendencies’, however, many agree are *CharacterDefects nature must have set aside for Us addicts & alcoholics. (It’s the most selfish disease there is)
DaamnRecap:
*She acted entitled from the get-go,
“You could have unlocked the door”
*She verbally abused Us.
*She may have lied to Our face.
*And that she viciously attacked Our character, all but flat out calling Us a “leech.” (Because then referring to herself as a “Solvent”, a whole stew of *Real conclusions can be drawn. Sponges absorb. Ok, whatever. But wait, there’s more retrospection!! Sponges Dønt function other than to absorb “solvents”. We point to the root word, ‘Solve’, as in, the remedy to a problem… (or, ‘solution’…) Interestingly enough, #Solution is another word for ‘solvent’! Like, concoction or mixture.
(See #Daamnuage for Our uniquely-inquisitive observational-factoids on the primary #language of the Western world!)
So Auntie Laura, if your reading this… what was your intention interacting with Us today? You succeeded if it was to demonstrate that inviting you to future family functions will only bring toxicity. Something We’ve been ridding Ourself of for over 3 years now… *If you were me, would you be a solvent desirable of sucking up (to) ? ? ? Whether we’re a “sponge”, We still reserve the right to choose what ‘solution’ We absorb. What makes me more sad than angry about this, you used to be my favorite aunt. You were different & *fun & true to yourself - without having to demonstrate that your way is the right way. You managed to ‘not paint inside the lines’ - drawing your own lines - but you still respected others enough to hold a steady brush if they asked that of you. You are family, I Love you! I want you to be the aunt to my daughter that I remember as a positive influence during my formative years.
Not an “auntie Karen” who confuses ‘enlightenment’ with ‘entitlement’ while dismissing consequence as karma.
(“Daamn”!)- Kam
*offended & on edge, concurrently ‘defensive’ like your under attack… (probably YOU ARE!)-JP