Discover the power of asking Question

1 year ago
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I know that you've talked about clarity is super important. Carrots. Talk to us about those two things, which I think are both pretty powerful. Yeah, Tom, I would say questions, you know, like right now, I'm more curious about people that I can't even help myself. I'm asking you questions like, hey, you know, how come you don't have any kids? We don't have any kids. Why don't you have any kids? Well, because, you know, we decided six years ago, we're not gonna have any kids. But how did you know that? Well, we got married 17 years ago, we've been together for 20 years. And my wife, so it was a decision and emotional decision or logical decision. I think it was a logical decision because it was finally a way to get in, you know, fulfillment. What you and your wife did is what very few people do. And the whole purpose is sitting down and asking the questions. What if I get asked a question that I don't have the answer to? One of the scariest things about life is a question. The scary question can shake a soul up because no one's asked that question from you. So for me, the transition for somebody to want to change it and get clarity is actually asking questions. If you don't ask the questions of what you want to do next, the world is gonna put you in the box on what you have to do next because they're determining who you need to be. And you are rising up to their expectations because you're not asking the questions yourself. So clarity to me is stemmed from you being able to sit down and ask those tough questions that piss you off, that irritate you, that make you emotional, that you cry over, that you reflect, that makes you want to do research, that makes you follow up, that makes you sit down and say, I don't really know.

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