“We used to be a #Woman…” Transplant’s & #TransParents for Transparency in #PublicEducation 👹💬🧒👧

Since Our absence, a lot has transpired, by the grace of ‘God’ - We celebrated 3 years of #Recovery from drugs & alcohol on March 17th of this year, 2023. Though it hasn’t all been great. Also suffered a psychological breakdown in recovery, days after Our son was taken out of our life; ultimately diagnosed with schizo-disorder & have since changed Our way of being! (Not just geographically!) 😏 We are stable once again & working towards a vision for life. Nermak Muzik (Bringing it back ‘round to Our son.) His entire situation couldn’t have improved as we’d hoped - based on his moms behavior alone - providing it’s a toxic environment. From discovering Muzik has premature asthma …. To the execution of legalities that unjustifiably prohibit her own son from having a relationship with his loving, biological father - believing it to be a means of ‘getting back at me’.
But to then go on & Block the entire paternal side Nermak of the sons family -why? (Spite?) -after they paid to fly them both out to visit Hawaii, (+ of course simultaneously paying for her other kids to go to her family’s place in Cali so she’d be ‘available’ to take Muzik to finally meet his ‘Gramps’, my dad. Muzik is his first grandson & he’ll be 75 this month, (same month Our boy turns 2 !) His mothers blocked them to such an extent they can’t even get pics or updates of their only grandchild?🎵Muzik’s the newest addition to the Ohana in 30 years.
Now, pregnant (again) with kid # 5 -&- dad # 4 - (& within months of announcement), announcing to her thousands of followers that, “Our son is “Autistic”….” .. I mean, ok. That’s one thing if it’s true -But she’s simultaneously posting that it’s “traumatic” due to “memories” of (Me, ‘DaamnKam’ harassing & “abusing” her about, “the possibility of this happening…” etc. And at 18 months old - These claims apparently made prior to any ‘doctors-opinion’, were posted to social media at least thrice (thus far), the latest one quotes, “people ask why I don’t talk more about Muzik being on the spectrum… …because I’m an #abusesurvivor & ‘that particular situation is’ #traumatic) *Lies.
My primary concern will always be -the well being of my only son; We are honestly scared for Muzik Orion! Not because of any one possible health condition -Having lived in ‘her household’ for years, witnessing not just the disfunction-but the danger. (Having admittedly added to it before seriously getting help in Dec2019) I worry that His mom may be creating a pre-meditated ‘bad-mom-excuse-card’, one to eventually ‘whip out’ while claiming she did the best she could with raising a kid who’s, “On the spectrum”… His big sister, Our step-daughter, is actually on the spectrum - sort of - with a learning disability & emotionally stunted growth, it can be difficult for her in school & in social situations. (&claims were made that We ‘abused her’ as well) 😔THIS- breaks my heart -because I stood up to her in defense of her daughter on multiple occasions over the years when discipline/structure would lack & lack & lack until it crumbled & the verbal abuse started.
How can it be said that I abused that girl(?!)
The same way she eventually said that I abused my own flesh and blood prince and joy son! By lying, that’s how. Apologies & living amends for the abuse/trauma pre-Recovery(Dec’19) So many lies… to what extent?! To keep away a man who’s consistently supported his son (?) To make sure that a loving family doesn’t get near “your son” (?) To satisfy an urge to cause Us pain(?) As far as ‘Autism’, ‘Retardation’ or anything of the like- There was a conversation about ‘what if’; I was concerned for passing down Our mutual disease (#Addiction & #Alcoholism), We were concerned with the ‘boy’ or ‘girl’ ‘gender’ conversation too.
Being a dad became my whole entire world before he was even born; January 2nd 2020 - Then for the first 7 months, it was Nermak Muzik for real! Dad & son time almost every day - Until We were hit by surprise with a restraining order prohibiting any more visits. That was in March of 2021.
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