Don’t give up

Everybody has their own opinion but it solely depends on from which person you take the best opinion and decide to use it.
You can listen to many different opinions and advice, but in the end, you have to have your own head on the shoulders. Filter and use just the right ones that fit only you, doesn't matter if they don't align with society or other people's standards.
You are unique. You don't have to always follow in the footsteps of others. And most importantly, you should always remind yourself that you don't have to do what everyone else is doing and have a responsibility to develop the talents you have been given.