Sex Before Marriage

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One of the most important decisions with far reaching implications in your future relationships is whether you have sex before marriage. Having sex before marriage most definitely puts your future happiness at extreme risk, and I encourage you to delay gratification. Here is why.

Humans are emotional, social creatures that require bonds. Family bonds can give you the greatest level of contentment and satisfaction. Ask anyone who has had sex with many partners over the last few years. If they're honest with you, they'll tell you they feel lonelier than ever before. They're also dealing with feelings of depression, and possibly abuse drugs to kill the pain. You don't want to go there. And if you're there you desperately want out, but maybe it's scary to take the leap into spiritual and psychological healing, and ultimately monogamy.

When you have sex and a large amount of oxytocin is released, but you're also NOT thinking of your partner in terms of a committed relationship, you train your mind to overcome the natural bonding effects of oxytocin. With “casual sex” your body and subconscious still falls in love, but your mind rips those bonds apart. Unfortunately there is no such thing as casual sex. Your body and subconscious are frustrated terribly with the cruelty of your conscious mind. You can find yourself lying naked in post-coital bliss, flushed with oxytocin, and also feel so terribly alone.

Statistics: https://www.heritage.org/education/report/harmful-effects-early-sexual-activity-and-multiple-sexual-partners-among-women