Self development: Tips on how to be the woman of your dreams

Self development: Tips on how to be the woman of your dreams
We are always trying to be the woman of someone else's dreams all the time. This is what we were taught when we were younger, be polite, dress like a lady, stand up straight etc etc. Why weren't we taught how to be the woman of our own dreams? How do you show up for yourself? How do you become the woman of your dreams?