BROAD THINKING: What the !@#$ is Wrong with Single Mothers?

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What the !@#$ is Wrong With Single Mothers? Welcome to the dating app Stir. It is built for single parents. Yes. You heard that right. People who couldn’t keep their original family together think they can do better the second time around. Perhaps you should focus on keeping your legs together instead of swiping right. But, I guess you just can’t teach an old dog new tricks.
Their ads keep popping up on my Hulu account. I guess Hulu thinks I'm a loose whore with bad taste in me. Nevertheless, their ad says this:
SOT: “As a single parent, you’ve tried the other dating apps, but when you mention your kids or that you can’t drop everything to go out on a date with your match, you’re no longer interesting.”
Now, I’m about to come down hard on da women. Why? Well, this is called Ladies Love Politics. So… it’s kind of in the title. Men are turd nuggets… but I’ll leave them for this one. You see ,women have to have responsibility and accountability for their actions. Especially, if we want to champion feminism. Being a single mother is your fault. The man shouldn’t have done what he did either, but you have the womb. He’s a slut. You're an ignorant slut. You are the one stuck with the kids and the ultimate responsibly. Because if he didn't marry before or after the child, he probably won’t now. You're the idiot that fertilized your womb with an !@#hole’s baby. It’s all upside for a man. Easy pussy with no effort or accountability. They don’t get pregnant.. You must own up to that. Don't blame him entirely. It takes two to bang. And we all know where babies come from…
Also, there’s nothing ladylike about being a single mother. You screwed up big time.
SOT: Pretty Woman
The kids are facing a disruptive life with a diminished outcome. The family no longer exists because of your mistake. Because when you have kids, that’s priority number one. Not finding a boyfriend or girlfriend.
Probably, the reason you are in this single parent situation in the first palace is your bad decisions and slutty lifestyle. Tough titty said the kitty but the milk is just fine.
Kids shouldn't have to experience a broken and then watch mom go through endless !@#$. You now have to do it all. If you have time to catch weenies, then you are probably a bad mom. You are now the mother and the father. The nurturer and the provider. And if you’re divorced, same difference. You married, but broke the vow, later on… Your kids have to deal with crappy choices their parents made.
Now that you’re single, don’t perpetuate the problem. A harlot that got knocked up or a divorced mom - no difference. You screwed up. The father of your kids did too, but they won't have the same burden. So he’s not better character wise, but it did avoid a lifetime responsibility. He also didn’t let himself get pregnant with a stranger’s baby for 9 months.
This Stir app was created by Match.com. A vice president at the company has said that, “we’re dedicated to giving single parents a dating experience where they are celebrated and feel like they can be themselves. With that, our hope is that they can truly focus on having a personal life beyond navigating parenthood.”
What? Personal life beyond parenthood? Dump the kids with a sitter cause mommy needs a boy toy. That’s what the messaging is? It’s exactly what kids without fathers and in broken homes need - less time with a parent.
And back to that ad… it says that you become less interesting on apps when you tell someone you have kids. YA! Maybe the universe is sending you a sign. Stop the hunt for community!@#$$You fertilized your womb… it ain’t anybody else’s problem. That won’t help you or them. It will make you feel validated and feed your sense of arrested development, but that is it. Little Johnny and Sussie don’t want a step dad - they need their mother.
There are more than 20 million single parents in the U.S. Match.com says that they are, ““are oftentimes underserved on mainstream dating apps.”
Well, I’d hope so.
A man might want to pick you up for a date… but he doesn’t want to also pick up your baggage. Why would anyone want to be a step parent? Added responsibility from the get go. No honeymoon phase. Always waiting on the kids or arranging schedules around someone else’s children. And moms are worried about their children. They're less carefree, rightfully so, because they have dependents.
Women bitch all the time about how hard it is to be a single mother. Why do you think a man would like to be a single dad to kids that aren’t even his own. That’s more kids to provide for . Why would he father someone else's children and pay for them? We all think polygamy and sister wives are weird but is this much different? It’s just that same thing in reverse. You wouldn’t want to be one of several girlfriends or wives. But you expect him to meld in with your family and with your kids and become one many stresses in your life?
Dating apps in general are just glorified, high-tech prostitution. But this app should just come out and say what they are. It helps men sift out the most desperate and easy women in the world: single mothers.
REFERENCES:
https://www.cnbc.com/2022/03/21/match-stir-is-a-new-dating-app-for-single-parents.html