How to deal with an unsupportive spouse

Are you struggling to find support from your spouse in regards to your goals and ambitions? It can be an emotionally draining experience when you don’t have the support of your significant other. It’s important to remember that this doesn’t necessarily mean that your spouse doesn’t care about you, but rather, that they may be afraid of what might happen if you pursue your dreams. Here are a few tips for dealing with a spouse who doesn’t support your goals:

The first step to dealing with a spouse who doesn’t support you is to clearly and openly communicate your needs. If you don’t tell them what you need, they can’t provide it. Explain your goals and ambitions and why they are important to you. This will help your spouse understand your perspective and may open up a dialogue that could lead to mutual understanding and support.

It’s likely that your spouse has their own fears and concerns about your ambitions. Acknowledge these and be open to hearing them out. Consider their perspective and how it may differ from yours.

And understand most people do not get support from those closest to them.