DEEPER UNDERSTANDING - parenting. Children ALWAYS listen to their mothers! Be careful what you say!

"The hand that rocks the craddle decides the fate of the country!"
Don't forget that your children are like empty hard drives when it comes to their mind. Be careful what you put in them, because they are the first example they will lead by in life! What a mother tells a child will be hard to not live by when it comes to the child. Are you a toxic mother always trashing your child, or are you willing to teach them how to become better than who and what you have been? Just because one had a series of bad experiences in life, this is not an excuse to dump all these onto the next generations.
If we are to make generations that are brighter than us, change starts WITH US! The newer generations are most likely better than us, but are allowing the genius within to blossom? If not, well... it doesn't matter how much genius one has in their genes, if not well watered, just like a plant it won't grow as much.
But wait... a sick society doesn't have the purpose to water you down so you grow smoothly. So it is your duty to make sure that those who come after you have a better life than you did.
If you allow pains to take the best of you, you're part of the problem, not the solution!