Young Men in Crisis (upload version)

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There is a crisis that young men are dealing with today that may be best resolved with finding a wife overseas, as I did. Things were tough for me in several decades and I think are worse now. I want to hear your comments on this here or in the Community Corner message forums. There is an alternative, a solution to these woes, that I will talk about today. Subscribe to Love Beyond The Sea; no matter the changes in the west, many men are still able to get what they want and need, they just have to go about it differently than they have in the past.

I will read a commentary from MrE. Remember that your comments are welcomed. Here are MrE’s thoughts on the crisis of young men-

Within the course of the past decade there has been an accelerated growth of hate by society towards men spearheaded by the media. Every single day there is some news story, tweet or comment about how evil men are. Society has grouped men under the umbrella of characteristics that maybe a few bad apples have within our ranks. From cradle to grave in modern American society; men are taught how they are disposable and how bad they are for just existing.

Young boys in America are shamed for their very nature, boys can no longer explore and become men, because society won't allow it. Young men no longer have a rite of passage like their ancestors, be it their first hunt with their father, getting the keys to grandpas old muscle car or even just going out alone in the world and having their shackles freed just a little; young boys/men are no longer free to explore the world and to understand what it means to be a man.

We are constantly shamed with the term of toxic masculinity which is described as a man who is sexually aggressive, assertive and is a go getter. In short, the opposite of a wimp and a hipster also known as a nu-male or soyboy.

What is so wrong with being a cowboy, a rough-neck or living up to the archetype of traditional masculine role-models of old like John Wayne, Marlon Brando, Clint Eastwood or Al Pacino?

With a constant barrage from talking heads on the media about how the future is female and how all men are dangerous predators that should be locked up just for displaying sexual interest in a woman. Many men especially young men are lost and confused in this dystopian world. Due to this suppression of male identity, young men are ill equipped to face the challenges of manhood, especially when it comes to relationships with the opposite sex.

With every man monitored and scrutinized; a harmless friendly touch on the wrist to a woman he is sexually attracted to in this day often leaves men terrified; as the consequences of getting things wrong weighs heavily on his mind. This is due to the poor souls who rightly or wrongly have been crucified in the media in this post #MeToo era. With masculine role models and coming of age stories demonized in Hollywood and often growing up in single mother homes; many young men today are unsure of how to conduct themselves leading to often very dramatic and often violent outbursts.

With this constant barrage of demonization from the media, the workplace and social media this has had a very disastrous effect on the male psyche. With male suicide rates well beyond epidemic levels and a significant rise in poor socialization leading to many young men becoming shut-ins and incels; and the systematic destruction of male-only spaces these very serious problems spell doom for the future of our society!

While this may or may not be a surprise to this audience it is something that has long been neglected and not discussed within our society. The media and the rest of society needs to stop the demonization of our boys, young men and men in general. This requires no more shows depicting fathers as bumbling idiots and allowing fathers equal opportunity to be with their children and be involved in their lives. While this is unlikely to happen, this needs to happen to avoid the cataclysm that awaits us.

Bob’s channel Love Beyond the Sea is about providing solutions. Watch the video to find out what needs to change.