Reasons to live near your Filipina's family in the Philippines

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There have been several comments made by some that I take exception to about Filipinas. One is that you shouldn’t bring your Filipina wife to America because she will become “Americanized”, and another is that if you marry a Filipina and are going to live in the Philippines that you should live several islands away. I will link the first two videos in the description box.

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The sentiment about living several islands apart from her family I am going to accept is not made tongue in cheek. Even if it is, I will show why I think it is best to live near her parents. We have built a house for us and her family that we will utilize when on vacation there and when we retire, which Lord willing, will be in the Philippines. There was never any thought given by either one of us to live in the Philippines a “safe” distance from her family. Why do some people say that would be a good idea?

That’s easy enough to recognize. The idea is that by living so far away from her family, her family would not be able to just drop in. If they don’t drop in, they are not going to be able to ask for monetary help. There might be the thought that they don’t want them to be over and eat all their food or play karaoke a lot.

It isn’t that I can’t comprehend the logic in that, but I have a different view and that might come from the vantage point that I have being married to a Filipina since May 10 of 2015. If a foreign man has not been to the Philippines and isn’t married to a Filipina, it is easier to understand why they would want to live somewhere else in the Philippines.

There must be the belief that having her family drop in is a bad thing. I have met my wife’s family on three separate times now and frankly, need to get to know them better so if I were able to do that more frequently when living there, that is good for me and good for them. After all, we ARE a family. I married into her family and she married into mine. We ARE a family. I want to get to know them better and I’d like them to know me better.

If it simply doesn’t work out then we will go from there but I think having family right there will be good for me so I can have people to talk to. Like my wife in 2016, I will be in a foreign place and want to get to know people. I want to get to know her brothers especially and brother-in-law. I am sure this is quite unusual but who’s to say it won’t be better than living a long distance from her family?

Living close to and with her family is what I’ve decided to do with my love beyond the sea.

https://youtu.be/40cC9e7zfM4 Why you Should bring your Filipina to America

https://youtu.be/dquWuMz3kjY LIVE-29 Ways to Prevent your Filipina from becoming Americanized

https://youtu.be/qLgXjPMPM5o Our Gift to our Filipino Family Parts 1 and 2 (Home Construction)

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