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How To Get A Guy To Want You

If you’ve been dating at all in your 30s, 40s and up, you’ve probably found yourself wondering at some point if a guy really wants to be with you. You’re trying to read his signals. And that means that you want to know how to get a guy to want you and how to get him interested in you.

It’s not always easy to find the committed relationship you want when you’re struggling to get this man to see that you’re the right woman for him.

I’m going to answer some of the important questions about how to get a guy to want you right here and now.

And because you have to start any relationship with DESIRE if you want to be his girlfriend – or if you want him as your husband in the future – you need to know how men think.

Likes and dislikes aside, there’s always a reason a man falls in love with a woman. And you’ll have the advantage if you know HOW this happens with men.

So let’s dig right in with…

TIP 1: Get Him To Pay Attention To You…

It might seem like a pretty obvious tip – but one of the most important steps to nailing this person – this man – down as your boyfriend is knowing how to get him to give you his attention. If he’s not noticing you, he’s not attracted to you.

Now, you don’t have to resort to any kind of cheap attention-getting techniques to attract him or get him interested, like showing off or being loud. Those always work against you anyway.

But escaping the friend zone and creating some real sexual attraction with him is going to require you to know what makes men pay attention to one woman more than another.

Here are a few things men notice:

How you smell – the right perfume will work in your favor… the wrong one (or too much) will work against you…

When you check other guys out – You thought we were clueless about this one, huh? Well guys know when women do this – even if you’re less obvious than men are. If you want him to want you, avoid the visual “shopping” when you’re out…

Your hair – Yeah, you knew it was important to have luminous, flowing hair – but you might not realize how men look at your hair to decide how you must be taking care of yourself. Good hair = good self care…

Your Body Language – How you move gives away your thoughts and feelings in so many different ways. Just think about what YOU read in a man’s body language! The fact is that you can’t trick someone by saying one thing with your words and saying something else with your body. So learn how to present the best attitude with your body language…

Look, we men notice just about EVERYTHING about a woman, even if we might not be able to conjure the words after meeting you. It’s only later on that we figure out what made us feel attracted to you. And by then, it’s too late!

If you see a guy you want to pay attention to you, go ahead and intentionally “run into” him – literally bump into him if necessary. Men don’t care how you get into our field of awareness – only that you do!

(And most guys are clueless about the “bump into him” trick, so don’t worry – he won’t notice!

TIP 2: Show Him Some Personal Power…

One of the things that good men really desire is high self-esteem in a woman. But that may not mean what you THINK it means. Pop psychology has redefined what “high self esteem” is in the last 40 years or so. And it’s not very accurate.

Let me start by giving you an idea what confidence is NOT:

It’s not being “a b*tch”
It’s not “playing hard to get”
It’s not “dominating” men
It’s not “diminishing men” or by treating him like a little boy (which seems to be a popular fad in the media these days)
It’s not being loud or crude in public
It’s not a “mind trick” of making yourself feel good even when you don’t…

A man wants to see some indications that you’re a strong person and can stand on your own two feet. And – yes – he wants to know that you won’t let him walk all over you.

In fact, he wants to RESPECT you. It doesn’t matter if you met on some dating sites, or you just started talking at a party. A man wants to know that YOU not only respect you, but he can respect you too.

RIGHT FROM THE START!

So when you show him some personal power, you should focus on telling him stories.

Tell him a story that ...

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