Do we put others first or ourself first? We are asked to be Christlike but sometimes thats not "fun"

The issus of Spiritual maturity is putting others first even if they are wrong. That within itself is sometimes very difficult to do because we have liberty in Christ to do what we are doing and it's not wrong. So, we get frustrated and even angry at the immature christians when we have to think about them and their immature thinking and ways of living the grace life..